If you and your spouse/partner...........

United States
June 18, 2007 3:05pm CST
if you and your spouse or partner split up would you let them stay at your house or apartment til they found another place or would you boot them out as soon as possible?
4 responses
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
12 Aug 07
me and my bf just broke up after almost 2 years. The apartment is mine and i did offer him to stay until he found something of his own (i´s move to my moms house) but he declined and moved to his uncle instead. I guess he also felt it would be hard to be among all the memories that we have shared there =(
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• United States
12 Aug 07
my bf of 6yrs we just broke up we are both staying at the apartment til we each find another place
• United States
12 Aug 07
And we are breaking up cause I cheated on him... With someone I don't really know..and ruining 6 years of being by each others side through my daughter being abused by my mother
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
18 Jun 07
I think if we broke up I would find a new place asap or he would but I doubt either of us would be kicked out as it is both of ours place. Hopefully I will never have to find out.
• United States
18 Jun 07
thanks for commenting i hope i never have to find out either
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
18 Jun 07
I'd have to agree with everyone else in saying that it depends on why we split up. I hope to never find out. If it were just because we have grown apart and we are both in agreement, then I would definitely let them stay. I might even let him stay if it were due to cheating as this house is both of ours, not mine to kick him out of. It really would depend on all the circumstances.
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@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
18 Jun 07
it depends why we were splitting up. If I caught him cheating on me it would be safer for him to move out as soon as we split but if its for other reasons I would let him sleep on the sofa until he found a place to live.
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