Should you tell your friend you are attracted to him?
By maybel13
@maybel13 (205)
Philippines
June 28, 2007 6:53am CST
You are beginnig to become a good friends with a guy.. and you're also feeling that you want something beyond friendship with him. You can't stop thinking of him and you're beginning to fall in love with him. He isn't dating anyone. What should you do? You don't want to destroy a potential friendship by approaching him about this. But you've never felt that way to anyone.
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5 responses
@PrincessScarlett (53)
• China
28 Jun 07
I think the answer lies in how the man thinks of u
that's what u 'r gonna find out
telling him how u feel is the best way
don't miss the chance to pursue ur happiness
u just give him a hint
don't say it straightly
and see how he responds
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@hollowheart (1572)
• India
28 Jun 07
Dear Maybel. There is no harm in telling him that. He would know whats in your heart. Usually a girls love is never rejected. Boys are rejected in most cases. Thats what i have always faced.
Infact i am fighting for survival in one right now.
Go ahead and let reality be on top.
wish u luck.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
=that's a big NO! you should never tell him that you are falling or fallen for him. it could destroy your friendship and first of all you are a girl, it's not that good to say you are falling for a guy because he can take you for granted. i hope you get what's my point. uhmm love can destroy your friendship uhhmm why don't you try to make him fall for you?
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@dalhousiesteve (568)
• Canada
28 Jun 07
i would tell him how you feel,maybe he feels thwe same way but has alot of respect for you,he might be waiting for a hint
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
29 Jun 07
I am very timid, very much like a person would not dare to say export,if you are very brave, I suggest you put the heart to tell him.
