My Hubby Made Me Proud And Disappointed Me At The Same Time........
By viollet_ry
@viollet_ry (968)
Indonesia
July 25, 2007 10:48am CST
Remember I have ever post a discussion about how happy I was for my hubby that he decided to quit smoking. He was with me for 2 days when he did that and went out of town till this tuesday. He went with his friends which are also smokers. I was doubt that he could make it, but when I asked him on phone a couple days after hes gone he said he didnt smoke any till that time. I guesses he could stand it even he was around his smoker friends. I was so proud of him and told all my family about it on last Sunday at my parents' house. I praised him that even he was addicted to smoking badly but he could do it very well.
But after he was home on tuesday nite, he brushed his teeth and wanted to kiss our boy, coz he was afraid of smelling smoke around him. I was so disapponted to hear this. What can I say... I guess I will never see him stay away from smokng ever, eventhough this is my wish. I guess he also disapointed mylot friends who have supported him for his eforts..... I should believe that people who have addicted to smoking can never quit it ever......
2 responses
@dude007 (63)
• India
25 Jul 07
first of all i want to tell u that m not married but still this is a interesting topic so i want to join it.....and say something........wife and husband relationship is bind with a weak nott.......many times ur husband disappoint u .....but u have a such kind of feeling then u have to think according to him.......means his point of him.....basically cigrette is no one wants to quit....if he had no gud reason to leave it......then u have to be understand his condition.....not force him to exactly quit but try to ......smoke him less number of cigrete.....that will be effective.....
@viollet_ry (968)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 07
Hi, dude.
Actually I never force to do anything he doesnt want to, like this one, he has been promising to quit it for years without do it even once. But this time he had proved it to me and he did, eventhough I was doubt about it but he did convienced me that would stand it eventhough he was with his smoker friends. But anyway I was ok, just still hope he will one day.
Btw, I heard from some friends quited smokes, that if you really wanna quit then you have to stay away from it now lower the number, becoz it wont work and you will smoke even more instead of it. I am not quite sure about it but thats what they told me ...
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@viollet_ry (968)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 07
Thanks for your suggestion wiccania. I will always remind him about this. Hope he will quit permanently. I will be glad if so... :)
