Kindness is like a music - the giver heals the receiver.

I think every mylot people should be kind enough to reply this discussion. If you can be kind to anyone the other person just feels he/she is in heaven at the moment where your kindness has or will solve one of his/her problem. That's the way one should be kind to other. Kindness should not involve selfishness. Some people show kindness just because they have some inherent materialistic aim for being kind. Kindness must come from heart and without any ifs and buts, without any cause and effect. That Kindness is sure to turn the world into a music from the healers. The receiver will also be kind enough to propagate the same music to his/her near or dear ones.

Yes it sounds like it's very cheap to be kind, it could be easy to be kind but it's very expensive to kind and only people with very soft and loving heart can be kind and good to others. in fact, i understand kindness to others as doing good for those you know can't pay back in anyway but it's rather the other way in today's world. so i see it to be expensive. what do you say?

dear ssh123, I agree with your about kindness. But I am writing out of my experience, people now a day consider my kindness is my weakness. They feel as if I am obligated to them for doing something good to them. My own blood relation from whom I never took any help during the life time, do not consider I am doing everything to them out of love, but they consider my help as my weakness. Therefore I do good to others and be kind to others only after analysing the person for whom I am going to extend help or to be kind.

Yeah your right I really thought that life is so short so why ruin it. Give kindness to other's and enjoy life, just realize the joy you've given to the needy.

Kindness is like a beautiful music that flows around in our life. I would be very happy to be the giver to the reciever as I actually do in my life. I consider it a pleasure to be able to help the others who need my help.