what would you think if she told you this

I bet that her husband would be all for it. A threesome with 2 chicks is every mans dream! I would just suggest it to him out of pure fun and see his reaction. I think that this is very common among married couples. I am not into that, but as you said, everyone has the right to make their own choices.

Well I cant tell you where to go but for your friend tell her to dicuss it throughly with her husband. Plus I think she should explore it on her own first because she needs to know if she is going to be comfortable with being with a woman. Now as far as including her husband. She really needs to think on that because do she really want to open that can of worms. Is she prepared to let another woman be with her husband in front of her. Or is she sure that if she do invite a woman in and she do not like it is he going to want to continue then may throw it up in her face that it was her idea to start it and he wants to continue doing it. so they need to also come to an agreement first on how they are going to handle it and then stick with the agreement. Give it at least 3 -4 months of thought before acting on it.

Is it possible that she was asking you in such a way, that would not make you mad, to see if that other woman could be you? I would feel a little on the cautious side when she was around. I would make it clear to her that if that is what she wants, then talk to her husband but that it is personal and it should be between them. Also, I would warn her that alot of times, it may backfire and she could lose her husband to this other woman.