do you prepare to live with your in laws or not?

yeah.. i would also prefer living in my own house together with my husband and children. The way I see it, they will be all hands - on even to things that they should not do that (between my family only). I agree with you, though their only intention is to help but they are not helping the people concerned on being independent on problems involving their own family.

Hi jcyap888! :) I think you posted this discussion to a different interest. How does "motorcycle" relate to living with your in-laws? hehe... Hmmm.. I'm still enjoying my single life and have no plans on settling down, yet. But I believe that once you have your own family, you must stand on your own two feet and not live with your families. I have learned from my parents that it is better to have your own house and place where you can have privacy. Just visit your in-laws from time to time. :) take care and God bless! \(",)_