Violent or Abusive People Who Take It Out In Their Pets  |
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| I got this e-mail newsletter from PetPlace.com, and it really sickened me. We all know that sad to say, that there are many families who live in violent or abusive family backgrounds, and often it is recognizable when a person is suffering from an abusive spouse or other family member as there are usually telltale signs...the constant bruises for example. But according to this article the most silent of victims will quite often be the innocent family pet. The abuser, will often keep the family "at bay" by threatening to harm the family pet and thus, the other family members will keep silent. But this isn't always the case. Sometimes the abusive family member will take it out on the pet regardless, and create an atmosphere where the victim is afraid to leave as is stated here: I quote from the article: .."The Fear of Leaving.... There are many reasons victims of violence are afraid to leave the abuser. Fear of being caught leaving, financial instability, not knowing where to go, and emotional connection to the abuser. For those who have a pet who is also being abused, some do not know where to take the pet and are afraid to leave him behind with the abuser. Some abusers actively threaten to harm the pet if the victim leaves. The need to stay and protect the pet may prevent a victim of violence from fleeing the situation. Cases of violence toward a pet send a message to the victim: “If you leave, I will kill you.” Some of the documented cases include a man throwing his girlfriend's seven week old kitten against the wall during an argument. The kitten suffered severe head trauma and was euthanized. A client brought her old dog to a veterinarian for euthanasia. The client returned days later with two black eyes and a Pomeranian with broken legs. Upon questioning, the vet learned the woman's spouse forced her to euthanize the old dog and had broken the Pomeranian's legs as a punishment. Also as punishment, a man killed his children's pet fish, one by one, in front of the family. After witnessing situations such as these, it is understandable that a victim would fear the consequences of leaving. “What will happen to me if I leave? Will my pets survive?”......" This really sickened me to read this. The article further suggests though, that there are refuges, such as taking the pet out of the home and boarding it, while the "victims" leave their abuser to seek their own safety. And of course suggests calling the police in such matters. Here is the article in full: http://www.petplace.com/c... | | | | | |
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1. deeeky (1743)
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5 years ago
| | My present partner was in an abusive marriage and at that time when I took her in so to speak was very concerned as to her cat. She knew that the cat would be kicked again as he had kicked the cat many times. Having never had a pet and never had the intention to own one I was more than happy to oblige and collected ir the next day. It took a while for the cat to settle down but was more happy after a while and I was sorry to see the cat having to be put down earlier this year due to it having cancer. Tears..... | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | How horrible that first, your partner was in an abusive relationship to begin with then have the extra agony of her cat having been kicked by him as well. so sorry to hear you had to put the cat down...but I hope she/he at least lived a happy life the remaining years | | | |
deeeky (1743)
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5 years ago
| | The cat did have a happy life with us and it taught me that animals can give us a quality of a caring life as well as they give thier love back in so many ways. I know that ALL animals have feelings and an intelligence as well and we can learn from them asthey from us. | | | |
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2. ketybhagat (1881)
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5 years ago
| | Do such satans really exist. These dumb animals who cant even express their pain and suffering. I would suggest that it is better to leave your pet as a stray somewhere far and leave such men immediately. Strays are often cared for and at least they wont be hurt deliberately. Such people should be taken to the police and the same treatment metted out to them as they do to their family and pets. Absolutely no pity shown for such rogues. There should be a rule for violence to family like cutting off your little finger. That sh ould take care of those swines, for I believe they are cowards actually. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | The real sad part is that it is a pattern --usually people who are abusive came from abusive backgrounds themselves and are just re-enacting their own abuse | | | |
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3. wotfpatty (1290)
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5 years ago
| | Animal cruelty is a weak, disgusting thing to do and is done by those who have no self esteem or heart. People who hurt or kill animals to punish or intimidate people should be locked in jail or worse. I am an animal lover and, if I ever saw abuse by anyone, I would step in even if it meant I could get hurt myself. It sickens me to see these people getting off with light sentences or slaps on the wrists because their victims were animals. I think animal abusers should be treated as harshly as people abusers. I know many will say animals are JUST animals but they are living creatures and aren't here for weaklings to toss them around or abuse them just to make themselves feel bigger. I read where someone set his girlfriend's dog on fire because she wanted to leave him. What a wuss. He should be in jail doing time, not out on the street with just a $250 fine. I wish there were a way to stop these crazy people but there isn't and it's so sickening. I take in strays and do what I can but I can't make a dent in what is happening. I give to the ASPCA monthly as well as other animal groups and I hope that we can pass stricter laws against these beasts who think they're big men or women when they hurt a defenseless animal. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | Maybe it was the same story I heard..about a man setting fire to a dog...the recent thing I just heard today is that he's pleading temporary insanity....how can it be "temporary" when he deliberately threw gasoline on the dog...that is more like pre-meditated if you ask me | | | |
wotfpatty (1290)
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5 years ago
| | What a weak excuse. Who suddenly snaps and sets an animal on fire? I don't buy it. He's a wuss. I hope that he ends up behind bars. I am almost as protective of animals as I am of abused kid! | | | |
brendakaya (1302)
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5 years ago
| | I feel the same way that you do. These worthless bums need to be put away, in my opinion, indefinitely, or better yet, forever. I have no sympathy for them, whatsoever, and they're so lucky that I can't set the punishment for them. I firmly believe in an eye for an eye, in these instances, and I think if they can set an innocent dog on fire, or throw a kitten up against the wall, they should be able to have the same treatment, themselves. Then if they live through it, throw them in jail, too. | | | |
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4. worldwise1 (6189)
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5 years ago
| | Yes, the things some people do to animals are horrible, pyewacket, but what can we expect in a world that seems to have lost it's mind. Some people just have that kind of makeup. They enjoy hurting people and pets. When I was growing up there was a boy who lived down the road from me who used to kill cats all the time. They say that these types of people usually end up becoming serial killers or something equally bad. I have often wondered what did he eventually become because he was certainly guilty of the murder of those animals. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | I know a very nice kind woman, who loves to feed the stray cats...she swears that her landlord has been poisoning many of them though, but without actually capturing him in the act, she has no real proof. | | | |
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5. budsr03 (1520)
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5 years ago
| | Hi Pyewacket! The dog we have today came from an abusive home! I knew i had to get her out of there, so we bought her! The price was 50 dollars, but today she is priceless! She was abused by her previous owners who i am related to. Cuddles was just a puppy that wasn't house trained and for this she suffered a broken rib and other bruises! She was easy to house train because she knew we loved her. Dogs are so willing to please their owners! Today i don't need friends who abuse pets. Take care Pyewacket. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | That's so wonderful of you that you took Cuddles in like that--I would love to see a picture of her :) | | | |
budsr03 (1520)
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5 years ago
| | I have a picture of cuddles in my photos. I will try to get a better pic of her soon. :) | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | Aww--I just took a look at Cuddles, she's adorable!! And I love Nibbles too! | | | |
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6. webeishere (12986)
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5 years ago
| | I've only this to say actually, I hate people who abuse their spouses, I hate people who abuse their children, and I hate people who abuse their pets. They abuse what they love and it's just so wrong. Thanks. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~ | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | Could agree with you more GRANDPA BOB!! | | | |
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7. tdbrower1969 (1064)
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5 years ago
| | This is awful! It seems like we are hearing more cases of abuse against children, elderly, and pets nowadays! I sometimes wonder what kind of world I am bringing my son up in. I don't remember hearing any of these types of stories when I was young, but I also grew up in a very small town. I think that people who take their tendencies from being abused when they are young should stop and think and break the pattern, so that their children will not turn out the same way. I told this to my husband when we first were married, because his dad was verbally abusive to him. There was a time when he started treating our son this way, and I pointed that fact out to him, and he thought about it and changed his ways. I wish more people would be like that rather than to be abusive to helpless children, pets, and any other helpless person. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | I'm glad you pointed out the similar pattern your husband started to demonstrate..verbal abuse can be just as harsh as physical abuse. You're right though, we didn't hear of so much abuse before, unless maybe it just wasn't as publicized as it is now | | | |
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8. MisterPlus (962)
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5 years ago
| | That is sick. It is a horrible experience to be in that kind of situation. There must be a law to protect the pets and the people around this brutal people. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | Well there are more laws to protect people but not pets | | | |
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9. funny52f (5126)
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5 years ago
| | It is very said to hear this but it is happening. I agree that people who hurt their pets are also wont to hurt other people. Those who kick dogs probably got kicked when they were kids. We value our pets and even those that aren't ours as creatures who have life, who have feelings and get hurt. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | Yes, people don't realize that animals have feelings too | | | |
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10. Katlady2 (4477)
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5 years ago
| | It is so sad and so frustrating knowing that there are people in this world that are capable of doing such awful horrendous things, not only to humans, but to pets as well. I don't think that people like that deserve to enjoy life. They need to be "euthanized" themselves. Maybe that's a bad attitude to have, but I have no tolerance for people like that. It's good to know that there are places that are willing to take pets when the owners are in abusive situations like that. If I had known that when I was going through a bad situation myself, believe me I would have taken advantage of it. Fortunately, my babies were ok when I went back to get them. | | | | | | |
pyewacket (12221)
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5 years ago
| | That's a great way of putting it...that these people should be euthanized....and I'm sorry that you were in a bad situation, but also glad things turned out better in the long run, especially with the safety of your "babies" | | | |
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