Do u believe a broken relationship can be regained?
By subha12
@subha12 (18441)
India
August 29, 2007 3:40am CST
Do u belive that a relationship, whatever it may be, friendship or love, one lost can be regained?
Say you fight a lot with a friend, decide to keep no contact with that person and try to forget that person. In this situation do u ever believe u can ever start the same way of friendship with him/her?
8 responses
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
Is this happening to you? LOL. Just kidding, you don't have to answer that question. I certainly believe that a broken relationship can be regained because people's minds are ever changing. The circumstances in our lives also cause our minds to change. This is most possible when the people are more mature to handle differences between other people. Sometimes when you look at your past, you will just laugh at the silly way you reacted to things. I hope estranged relationships will be patched up. Have a great day!
@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
29 Aug 07
depends very much to the persons involved in.sometimes could be regained but other times don't
@angel_of_charm (4133)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
nothing is impossible when it comes to this terms you know..it just takes time and only time can tell when or how it will regained..also it depends on how it was ended..like for my case i decided to cut contact from a person i once called a best friend..she is just too much to handle more..we argued on petty matters and she just chose to raisen her pride on me so i let it be and just drop it off..for 8 years now going 9 years we have no contact..we bump into each other on the road but act like never sees each other..i just got enough of her B.S. but i will admit to you that i misses her company and someday if God's will i can still be her friend if that is..but i'm assuming now it will never happen knowing how she carries herself with pride..
@vinzen (1020)
• India
29 Aug 07
Yes you can, if you want to and think you can.
I believe that there is nothing under the sun we cannot do, if we want to do it, we can do it. Same way if we want to make friends with that person, no matter what mayve happened earlier, we can put the past behind us and make a new start. It would depend what the reasons of conflict were earlier, but if both the sides are ready to put the past aside and make a new beginning its worth giving it a try, why not?
Of course you have to decide how much you missed the person, how much you cared and what had actually happened that it broke off earlier, and if youre still in love or want to be friends again, then you should go ahead and make friends.I would also suggest to keep your mind alert as anything can happen as its happened earlier too, so enter into the relationshiop with your eyes wide open and be prepared for the worst too, just incase, that ways you will be ready and wont have anything to loose. Whether or not you will be able to keep that same old relationship and find that same kind of love, would depend on how you work upon that relationship and how much you both want it back.
@Lifeless (2635)
• India
29 Aug 07
There is every possibility of a relationship once lost, to be regained.. You just have to keep faith in urself and promise urself that u will not commit the same mistakes that led the bond to be broken, ever again.. You have to make a fresh start all over again.. try to win over the relationship rather than making it useless, and just parting from it...
@subathra (3519)
• India
29 Aug 07
I think its possible provided both of them have feelings for each other.When someone breaks the silence and rebuild the relationship.Hope it can be like this when the person who did the mistake apologise and the other accepts the same and the relationship can be regained and continued in the same manner as it was before.Its the attitude of people which determines the regaining of relationships.







