will it affect our relationship?
By wonderful1
@wonderful1 (2075)
China
7 responses
@mermaid911 (798)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
Yes, this will affect your relationship. You will have lots of arguments with your boyfriend and this will test your relationship. By this, you will be able to test whether your boyfriend will love you for richer or for poorer. LOL. Anyway, its kinda lonely having no job at all so I hope you'll find one soon. It does not only affect your relationship with your boyfriend but it will also affect your self-esteem and your disposition in life. If you don't like working for somebody, you can always work online at your own pace. Good luck wonderul1
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
17 Sep 07
i dont' know why i hate to work in the real life, so i ... ...,but you are right it will affect my self-esteem and my position in life.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
17 Sep 07
do you have a job in real life? if i can earn enough money online, then it is same as working in real life? i mean the basic problem is that i have to afford my living. isn't it?
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Hi wonderful1,
Well you need time to see if it will affect or not. I have a similar problem like i live in Turkey and my husband is in USA. I have a great job but i have to quit to move next to my husband. And it will take a while until i find a new job, my husbdan says he can take care of me for ever but i don't feel comfortable about it , so probably it won't be a problem for your boy friend but you don't feel comfortable. But i am sure if it has happened to your boyfriend you would do what ever you can to make him comfortable until he finds a new job. The only thing you may want to do is .you better spend money careful and try to find job as soon as you can. Good luck to you and have a great day!!!!
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
17 Sep 07
thank you zabawaus. i really need a new job, although i dont' want to find it.
@Nardz13 (5054)
• New Zealand
17 Sep 07
Hi there. Personally, I think this situation will only affect the relationship, if there is poor communication lines and the relationship is based on materialism and monetry gains, but if theres understanding, love, respect and awsome communication between the two of you, I dont think there would be a problem... This is my view anyway... Have a great one...
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
Sometimes insufficient budget for couples to support their livings are also the reason for their misunderstandings, but incooperation of both partners and of course proper handling of budget even if one of them is not working help them achieve a better and harmonous relationship. For your situation might as well discuss it to your boyfriend and try yourself not to do so much shopping so that you wont get short for your money.
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Sep 07
Well, Wonderful,
Sorry to hear that you can't earn enough money for your living temporarily, and hope you could find a new job soon.
Regarding to whether it will affect the relationship, it is really hard to say since we are not sure the whole situation about your BF. But I do think it will be better if the lovers could bear the expenses together if available. And suppose you BF won't care about it at this moment since it is also his responsibility to take care of you now.
WBR,Andy
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
19 May 08
well some parnters may think it would ruin ur relationship...but some may say dnt worry bout it..but its always good to get some type of income just in case...and if ur living together heck yes u need to make money
@MisterPlus (1915)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
Money is one thing that is very important in a relationship. Money will sustain your romantic relationship with him and have time for him too. You will finally get a job and everything will be all right when you get one.







