How will you manage this situation without hurting any friends feelings?
By humbleme
@humbleme (1004)
India
September 17, 2007 4:17pm CST
Hello friends,If you have lot of friends, I mean a lot and you get 4 to 6 party invitations each week and you are popular and every friend wants your presence in their own
party even knowing very well that you have tremendous pressure as wellas big official responsibilities and you are very serious inyour job and working hard to maintain your reputations and success and the little spare time you get you want to be your own creative world and you have told your problem to each of your friends seperately but
still they expect your presence and if each of them start some kind of emotional drama with you(as you couldnt attain his/her party previous evening), how will you manage this situation without hurting anybodies feelings?
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3 responses
@wildpvcgal (1085)
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17 Sep 07
Just be straight forward as possible and explain why its more important to go 2 one event rather than thiers and say you will come to the next one or else just say ur sick and hope you don,t get caught lol
@Darkwing (21583)
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7 Nov 07
I think it would depend on how far apart the parties were, but in order to keep them all happy and still observe my own valuable time, I think I might attempt to visit each party for say, half an hour, just to show my face and my loyalty to them, and then head home for a long relaxing period for the rest of the weekend.
It is difficult to keep everybody happy, but once they've acknowledged your attendance, hosts tend to mingle and not even know you've left. So, that would be my way of preventing too many emotional dramas amongst my friends.
Brightest Blessings and good luck! :)
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
23 Mar 09
Wow, Humbleme. It sounds like you were in quite a pickle. I hope you have solved that problem by now. But, if I was face with this problem, I would just not go to any of their parties if they are all held at the same time and the same day. You are only a one person and can't be at all places at the same time. If you ever are face with this problem again, take the time to be by yourself. Get some peace of mind away from all the dramas in the world.
