she's stole my heart.....

I was touch by your story. I know it is too painful for you but I think you have to move on. If she's happy then you have to give way and say hello to your tomorrow. Ask her if she's happy with her new special someone then say goodbye to that love that you felt for her. I know it's not easy as 1 2 3, but I want you to know that forgetting is not the solution, ACCEPT, accept the fact that she has her own happiness now. But if she says that she still love you then let her choose., The best thing to do now is to let your self be happy. Again, DON'T FORGET, JUST ACCEPT! Goodluck and God Bless.

For me, it is too tough and difficult having relationship between two difference location. Because there might happen something that under control by us, for example, she will fall in love in someone while we at here missing her so much. Then we cant take care of her while she needs a person to stand beside with her. Waiting someone is a difficult matters, how if she din come back after 2yrs????wat u will do??So u have to make sure your feeling on her, is your relationship is tough enough??

it's sad to know that she had someone new now, in my opinion you should continue what you have done before, i mean try to forget her again and move on with your life besides she already begun to open her heart to someone else, maybe she misses you for some reason like as a friend.. don't self-imprisoned yourself with the world that doesn't exist anymore. if she's really the one for you, God will make a way to get her back into you.

If you feel like your heart has broken, you're not alone. Just about everyone experiences the type of grief we call heartbreak at one time or another - and some people seem to have their hearts broken many times throughout their lives. Just think about all the songs you've heard on the radio about broken hearts! Of course, it's not really your heart but your feelings that are hurt.

Lots of things can cause heartbreak. Sometimes you might experience the pain of a romantic relationship that ends before you're ready. It might be because you love someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or maybe you've lost a friend or relative or someone else you care about. The causes may be different, but the feeling of loss is the same - whether it's the loss of something real or the loss of something you only hoped for. People describe heartbreak as a feeling of heaviness, emptiness, and sadness.
Although poets have written about the pain of heartbreak for thousands of years, when it's happening to you, you may feel like no one else in the world has ever felt the same. Or maybe you feel like every sad song was written just for you and your situation!

If you're recovering from a broken heart, there are things you can do to lessen the pain. Here are some tips that might help:

· Share your feelings. Sharing your feelings with someone you trust may help you to feel better. That could mean simply talking with a friend or family member. For some, letting the tears flow seems to help them heal faster. For others, simply hanging out together and doing things you normally enjoy, like seeing a movie or going to a concert, can be comforting. Somehow just being with someone who cares about you can make things feel a little better.

· Take good care of yourself. A broken heart can be very stressful. But don't let the rest of your body get broken, too. Get lots of sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly to minimize stress and depression and give your self esteem a boost.

· Remember what's good about you. Sometimes people with broken hearts start to blame themselves for what's happened. They may be really down on themselves, exaggerating their faults as though they did something to deserve the unhappiness they're experiencing. If you find this happening to you, nip it in the bud! Remind yourself of your good qualities, and if you can't think of them because your broken heart is clouding your view, get your friends to help you remember what's good about you.

· Keep yourself busy. Sometimes this is difficult when you're coping with sadness and grief, but it really helps. This is a great time to redecorate your room or try a new hobby. That doesn't mean you shouldn't think about what happened, it just means you should focus on other things, too.

· Give yourself time. It takes time for sadness to go away. Almost everyone thinks they won't feel normal again, but the human spirit is amazing - and the heart almost always does heal after a while. But how long will that take? That depends on what caused your heartbroken feeling - and on how you deal with loss and how quickly you tend to bounce back from things. Mending a broken heart can take from a couple of days to many weeks - and sometimes even months.

While we're at it, we might as well mention a few things that won't help. Like getting angry (or desperate) and trying to hurt yourself or someone else, drinking or taking drugs to feel better or become numb, or locking yourself up in a dark room.

Sometimes, though, the sadness is so deep - or lasts so long - that a person may need some extra support to deal with a broken heart. For someone who is not starting to feel better after a few weeks or who continues to experience signs of depression, talking to a psychologist or other mental health professional can be very helpful.

So, be patient with yourself - and let the healing begin.

Hi looserkid! Go to the mirror and ask yourself, Am I stupid thinking and waiting for her to come? If the answer is YES, go out and start looking for one. .. Life is too short. Don't waste your time thinking about her. the fact that she was able to find a new love in Canada only shows that you are not perfect pguy for him. Go and move on. Don't look yourself as a loser because there are other beautiful women out there. Even better than your EX. I'm sure you'll find one. Good luck.

geee. i will never escape that kind of feeling broken heart its realy takes long process, mybe becouse you dont try to find way, the more to run to it the more you feel crazy so why not face it. its not the heart that feel the pain its in our mind set up for it. its a matter of how you handle and accept things in life.i been in the same essue as much as atry to avoid him the feeling is getting worsed.so i face it and offer a frienship and contented of what we have.and do things that interest me, i work and work and keep my self bussy, i even enrolled to some yoga class.till i feel exhousted.and knock out my self in bed.every single day.life never stop here, you have a long way to go.its a matter of time and time can heal.now i enjoy my life and talk to him sometimes he is u.s now.i open my self for a date.but if he will come back then we are mean to be. but dont expect it. thats the most crazy thing to do, "waiting'.it maybe crushed you down.leave the thing that it is.go and live your life.

Wow... Very touch by your story there. Dude,you are so in love. I envy you,after broke up and still have a great relation with your ex and she still misses you. Anyway, best of luck to you.

She is in Canada and you are in the Philippines. My
experiece was she was in the States and I was also in the Philippines. I can honestly say that I knew the feeling for I was there before. The situation however was different for me. We were young then. We were madly in love and every moment we shared was one of pure happiness until one day when her family forcibly took her away from me and sent her to the States. After that, she became a blank wall in my life - no letters, no nothing whatsoever. What remained of her were only the sweet memories we have had together. And so for that matter,looserkid, take stock of yourself. Be strong. You are still young and for sure you will be able to meet other
girls who can give meaning to your life. Cheers!!