do feel pain when your love one leave you?

Philippines
September 19, 2007 4:54am CST
me of course i love all the girls i courted before but for some reason our we separate our ways...I was really hurt the time my girlfriend broke up with me....
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
2 Mar 11
Hi. meenneixz. Yes, I do feel pain when I leave a relationship. It can be any kind of relationship that with anyone. It hurts and it takes a long time for the pain to heal and to go away. I am sorry that you are feeling like this, you are not the only one, take care.
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
yeah. it hurts so much! breaking up is the hardest part in a relationship. for me, i haven't really experienced a very bad break up... maybe because i haven't fallen for someone that hard before... but now at this moment i have a person who i really love and he's far away and it hurts so much everytime he leaves... even though he always promises to go back.. i can't really stop hurting everytime and worrying about him... i really miss him though that's why it hurts... i can't really help it... that is why when your love one's leave you it really hurts and not just occasionally but everytime... it hurts so much inside... now, i'm worrying cause he maybe going away in a far away country and i know i'm gonna miss him and i don't know when he'll be coming back... but i guess i'lll just have to deal with it... i guess we'll all just have to deal with it when they leave us and maybe we'll just have to continue living life! well best of luck to you... i hope you can move on with your life after every break up... (n_n)
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Yes. Definitely. So much pain. It feels like someone stabbed you with a dagger, straight to your heart.. It really hurts and it makes you cry. :=( I can still remember the days when I felt so much pain when the one I love left me. But no matter how painful it is, we just have to stand up again and move on. No matter how much we cry, we must put into our minds and hearts that "it may rain 40 days and 40 nights.. but it will not rain forever. " If they left us, we can always try to stop them. If they continue to go on their separate path, then definitely that person doesn't deserve our love. We deserve someone better. It can be heartbreaking but it just shows how strong we are to endure the pain and just walk away from that person we love., who doesn't wanna be with us anymore.. We can always do a little growing up everytime we do a little letting go. Best of luck to you!