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myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people 5 years ago

On my granddaughters 7th birthday her grandpa passed away. (on her dad's side) She was very sad so I had her and her 2 year old sister stay at my house for a couple of days while plans for the funeral were being made. I took her birthday shopping (I let her pick out her gift and she loved that) and had a little birthday party for her we even had silly string. We all baked, made pictures, played games, and went to the park several times. We laughed and had a good time.

The funeral was yesterday, he was a great man and will be missed.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. GaiaFireLynx (149)   5 years ago

Happy 7th Birthday to your granddaughter. So glad you were there for her. My condolencence to you family for your loss.


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

Thank you so much.:)

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. Transdisc (18434)   5 years ago

Hello OURDEW

This is sad news, but it sounds like you handled things beautifully for granddaughter. It sounds like ya'll had a tremendous amount of fun.


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

Thank you, we did have a great time and was I tired after a couple of days of so much fun.:) Both of the girls are very sweet.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. kareng (3747)   ranked 257 out of 26,920 in people   5 years ago

That is sad for a little girl. I'm glad you took her shopping and did some special things with her. I'm sure she will look back back on this years later with special memories of you!


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

Thank you, I did the best I could. She was talking about the fun that we had with her mom and dad.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20751)   ranked 269 out of 26,920 in people   5 years ago

I'm glad she had you there to make the day special. Maybe when she looks back on her seventh birthday, she'll remember the laughter more than the sadness.


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

I sure hope so, thank you.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. TheHairDresser (3350)   5 years ago

Hello OURDEW
I am sorry to hear of the Grandfather's passing. And a very happy birthday to your little grandaughter. You are a great Grandmother to be so good and get her through this difficult time. It sounds like you really made it special for her so that she will have some great memories to balance out the hurt of her Grandfather's death. I'll bet you were worn out too:)*
Your Friend RozAnn TheHairDresser


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

Thank you, we did everything she wanted to do and then some. You are right, I was very tired.:)

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. derek_a (8560)   ranked 1,862 out of 26,920 in people   5 years ago

That is so sad and I am sorry for your loss. I can identify with the pain at such a time that is supposed to be a celebration - when my mother died, it was Xmas Eve, very sudden and unexpected. Xmas has never been the same since.


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

I am so sorry about your mother. My dad died a week before Father's Day, so I kind of know how you feel.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24673)   5 years ago

I'm sorry for your granddaughter. 7 is a pretty young age to lose a grand parent. I lost my first grandmother at 6, and while I loved her & missed her, it wasn't nearly as painful as loosing my grandfather at 13.

I never knew my father's real father because he died when my dad was 9. But we lost his mother and stepfather almost a year apart when I was 11 & 12. I didn't really know them that well tho, it was the loss of my mother's parents that hurt.

But losing someone on a birthday is very painful. While it wasn't actually ON my birthday, my dad died the day after it. This doesn't lead to having the happiest memories of my birthday.


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

I bet having your own dad die so close to your birthday is really hard. I am so sorry.
He had a 13 year old daughter. I feel for her also.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24673)  5 years ago

I had just turned 31, my sister was 27 & my bro & his wife hadn't had conceived their daughter yet. So, we weren't children.

My niece just this last spring lost her other grandmother, she is 21.

Kindda sad, my niece has 2 other cousins, but she was 15 when her uncle adopted a child & her other uncle & his wife had just a baby when she was 17 so for YEARS she was the only grand child on either sides of the family. Still is the only one on ours (and since my BABY sister hits 50 this year, it doesn't look like its going to happen.)

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. thefortunes (1173)   ranked 475 out of 26,920 in people   5 years ago

So sorry to hear about the passing of your granddaughter's grandpa Ourdew. It was admirable however what you did do for her, and make her still have a great BD, and joy and fun too.
My condoleances for your loss
TheFortunes


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

Thank you thefortunes, that is kind of you.:)

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9. myLot reputation of 83/100. TheSpy (3351)   5 years ago

Hi Ourdrew:

This is very very sad. Now your daughter will never be able to enjoy her birthday because she will always remember she share this day with her grandpa's deat.

My condolances to you and your family.

Ivor


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

Thank you Ivor, maybe in time she won't remember so much.:)

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10. coffeequeen2526 (30)   5 years ago

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. I think you did a nice job at making your granddaughter's birthday special.


myLot reputation of 99/100. OURDEW (2387)   ranked 37 out of 26,920 in people  5 years ago

Thank you so much that was very sweet.

Welcome to mylot, I hope you like it here.:)

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