Getting over with.......
By cheenlly
@cheenlly (3476)
Philippines
10 responses
@navtech (1773)
• India
9 Oct 07
Dear cheenlly, In case the love affairs starts at the tender age, then it would be very difficult to get over it. I loved a girl when I was studying in school. For the last 45 years I never met her but the feeling of love towards her remain with me till date. I could not forget her. Now she might have grand children.
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@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
hello navtech, oh tender age, could i say it really start at tender age, mostly or should i say generally hehehe and i agree with you and oh you mean you still love her after all those years? oh i am very touch to hear that. I can see a very nice love story behind that. Does she know about it? or have you tried looking or her way back? If given a chance now, do you still want to pursue it if ever you meet her?
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
7 Nov 07
its hard because we put so much feelings on it. we gave precious time and efforts to nurture that love. we might even have sacrificed something for it. but as they say, time heals. as time goes by, the pain lessens and also the feelings. we learn to forget and we learn to forgive. ^__^ it also helps if we don't see often the love we are trying to forget.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
9 Oct 07
I thought I was in love before and I thought it really hurt when we broke up. In hind site I don't think I was really in love with them and the pain wasn't that bad. I think that now I am really and truly in love and if he ever left me I would be truly heartbroken and don't think I would ever get over it.
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@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
hi,thanks or dropping. if you say your truly in love now yes i believe that would really hurt if ever you broke up but how much pain or hurtful it is, believe me you will get over with it. Time will depend for every person. I can say that because i had experience that before. I thought i would get over it but in one year i was able to get over with it but o course i've been through a certain process of healing in that span of year. i help myself though its very very hard to the point i wish to die and i was lifeless. I thought i would not cope up with it but i do. One thing i can only say to you is that dont love too much as of now so it will not hurt that much or its ok to give all love you had as long as your ready whatever happens because you know sometimes hurt is the price in loving. Thanks again. Have a nice day.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
Uhm... I do. Its hard for me to get over someone... why? I love her so much that I would allowed myself to be sacrificed to offer her happiness... no matter, the thing here is you care for someone... even if it wouldn't be returned as how some perceived it.
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
9 Dec 07
All depends on how much that person betrayed my love-if she trampled on my love which was all i had for her and her alone, i would simply shut her off my mind and in just one week, my heart would not even remember such a person existed in my life.
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
10 Oct 07
I think it is. I have a lot of emotional pain after someone breaksup with me. I think the worst of getting over someone was my ex husband. I still think of him from time to time and I see him some in stores I go to. I have seen him with his new wife. I just hope he is happy and got what he needed relationship wish.
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
9 Oct 07
I'm not sure about this. I have been in relationships where I truly believed I was in love, but when we broke up it only took me about a week or two to get over. This one that I'm going through right now is taking longer, but it keeps getting easier. It makes me question if I was ever in love with any of these guys in the first place.
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
based on my experiences, i really found it hard to forget the feelings for someone of whom you loved so much. It will took you time and self-help to overcome evrything. pain will not leave you just like that. It will need more time before it heals. But once it is heal, then it is really over and you can start moving on.
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