What are the issues that you really dont like discussing with your partner?
By kwenge
@kwenge (2487)
Kenya
October 11, 2007 8:08am CST
In a relationship, there are issues that you would really wish your partner never to bring up. I asked a close friend of this question and she said she hates when her husband talks about her ex- boyfriend and how she lost her virginity and to who! She also wont dare like her husband ask her how many men she had slept with before she married him. What is yours?
2 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
The issue that I dont like discussing with my partner? I dont know if there is such, because me and my partner has been talking about anything under the sun. We always try to keep no secret or problems left unsole. THough there are times that we discussed things, we both know that it is just because we are giving our sides regarding things.
@mitzwu (214)
• Taiwan
11 Oct 07
hello kwenge,my husband always mentioning about to learn there language (chinese)that i lost my temper and he know that im trying hard to learn it even sometimes give me headache because i cant pronounces it properly but i understand what did they say the problem of me is to speak well and sometimes we have a figth of this.coz i have a problem of my memory too.sometimes i lost my memory i mean i just want to do something and i for got and think it many times to recall but just for got it just like now answering posting here its take maybe half and our to think to answer the discussion.and im hoping you undrestand too my post here and thanks.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
11 Oct 07
mitzwu, I get you very much. There are some issues that we would pray hard that our spouse to forget or not talk about it completely and yours is a good example. I here chinese is very heard to learn. Have you tried telling your husband to give you humble time for you to learn? please be open and tell him what you feel or talk to someone close to him like his sister.
