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myLot reputation of 60/100. seabeauty (504)   ranked 6,303 out of 25,753 in life11 months ago

When referring to someone in your past, do you say, "his name WAS" or do you say "his name IS".

I was just thinking of this girl I knew in second grade and I am 40 now, don't know if this person is alive or dead but if I were to describe her I would say, "I knew a girl in second grade that used to tease me and her name IS Sonja."

Is that proper to describe her in the present tense? I don't know if she is still alive so I say "is" just in case.

Does it matter?

Just curious. Hoping someone that is good at the English language could help me out here.

 
 
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peanutjar (2248) response was accepted on 10/28/2007.
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. peanutjar (2248)   ranked 16 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

Hello,if you talk about someone long ago then its the past and you use "was".If its the present then you use "is".Eg:I knew a girl in second grade that use to tease me and her name was sonja".It does not matter if they are alive or not,its the time factor(past:WAS,present:IS,future:IS)that matters.:):)


myLot reputation of 91/100. balasri (6041)   ranked 1,510 out of 25,753 in life  11 months ago

Her name is -if she is alive.And her name was-if she is no more.That is what is right I think.


myLot reputation of 91/100. balasri (6041)   ranked 1,510 out of 25,753 in life  11 months ago

That was supposed to be addressed Seabeauty.Would you please pass it to her.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. roniroxas (4330)   ranked 262 out of 25,753 in life   11 months ago

if her name is still sonja then you use is. if she changed her name and then you can use was. even if he/she is dead when reffering to names you use is. my dad's name is Leleng, dead for 12 years now.


myLot reputation of 96/100. peanutjar (2248)   ranked 16 out of 25,753 in life  11 months ago

In grammar school we were taught to use the past as "was"."IS"meaning now and present time,they have to be here living.It would be like your dad is still alive if you used "is".Im sorry about your dad.

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