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hi.it is a pity to have such a "friend".but there are such "friends".i don't treat this kind people as friend.it is true that the friends should help each other,but friendship is not just help.we should have many same things and good habits together.if you are in trouble ,the friends are behind you,not you always behind her/him,but he/she is away when you are in trouble.it is important to choose a good friend.

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Yes, I have one dear friend, who would try to sort out his problems first. He is selfish and sees if he is helping for one deed, I should help him out for atleast four of his deeds. He always wants more than what he gives to me. We have been friends for many years since out school days.

that was really sad story and I think you should find some other friends.I know some people liek this too, but I will not called them friends but just someone who I know.I don't think they deserve to be my friends, since if I have riends I am able to do anything for them, but they have to appreciate it at least and not be spreading rumors about me right on the cornor or not even say hi when i met them somewhere.

It is sad that there are people like this in the world. They are bitter and twisted and no nothing of what life is really like. My former best friend was one of these, and nothing I ever did was good enough. I guess the best way to describe her is this: she was like a jealous boyfriend. In the end, i'd had enough and put and end to the friendship. She was preventing me from being the person I wanted to be. As far as i know, she hasn't changed, she still relies on her mother for everything and she is almost 27. a very selfish person indeed, and I no longer want her kind in my life. 7 years of abuse was enough for me. I do however think that she made me a stronger person for the things she put me through, and I have to be thankful for that, but if she turned up on my doorstep, I would be telling her to leave.

My dear, this so called friend of yours isn't worth the effort. If she has been like this from the start, then she will not change. The best thing you can do is thank her for the friendship and then move on. There are better people out there who do genuinely care.

I have these types of people back then, I have dumped and left them since I don't deserve having them nor treating them as friends. Most of them are just out there to suck everything I have, they are like parasites who always relies on me. Good thing I was woken up by one of those concerned to me, eventhough he was not a "friend" back then. So I investigated first, then took more days to really find out the truth behind their motives of befriending me. Now, I am with good friendly relationship with him.

I don't have any types of those people behind me anymore, I even went back to my REAL and childhood friends since they are really the one's whom I knew and knew me as well.

That is so unfair the way she treats you like that Rozie - I don't know how you put up with it sometimes. I know it must be hard to stay away because she is in the same building as you but girl, you need to cut that relationship off OR tell her to her face what she is doing to you and your friendship.

I for one would probably break of the friendship and when she tries to call you or visit with you, to tell her that you don't have time for her anymore - its just not worth all the headaches that comes with such a friendship/relationship!!!!

I thank GOD have never had an experience like your's! Sounds like she has multiple personalities, or is just a b***h.I wouldn't have anything more to do with her if I were you!...Lori

Is this the same girl you have been having problems with? I don't understand this girl at all. Why in the world does she call you and then tell you not to call her all the time? I have a friend like that and have had many over the years. I love and respect my friends equally and I hate being treated badly by so called 'friends'. I have a friend that knows my husband and I are trying for a baby and it's very important to me. We used to be the best of friends, but over the years, we have stopped talking as much. Anyway, she calls me two weeks ago to tell me that her and her husband are expecting their first baby and tells me that my husband and I need to hurry up so we can be pregnant together. I thought that was cold. We have been trying and I'm happy for her, but don't call me to tell me something like that with that kind of attitude. She knows how important it is to me. She has also loaned my CDs out to people that are less than reliable, and of course I've never seen them again. I would never loan a friends personal belongings out to anyone without asking first. I guess some people are just like that though, which is a shame.

Rozie please don't let this get you down. I know your heart, and you are trying to do what is right here. Sounds to me like this person is just trying to play games with you and your feelings. Maybe she gets her kicks by toying with your emotions like this. It's sad. Just pray for her and go on your way. Don't put yourself in a place where she can do this to you anymore, be strong and stand firm. You have way too many other friends to have to worry about being hurt by this one. I'm sorry you are so hurt by this. If I could take the hurt for you I would, so just say a prayer for her, dust off your feet and turn around and don't look back. Wishing you a wonderful weekend and week ahead my friend :)

Thank God you have a chance to encounter a personality such as that. The good thing is that you realize things and get over with it. The beauty of it is that you now are in a better position to discuss personality traits, huh. User? people use people, things and anymore? Put to good use every thing you have at your disposal , including experience. That way, we come closer to being at peace with ourselves and with God.