Personalized wedding vows.  

This is so romantic, I think the only way you can do it is first sit and think of all the things you love most about your husband then write this down and make notes from there. You'll probably surprize yourself it'll all come together. I'd be happy to help if you need my advice and ask more than two or three people because that's how you can get different opinions. Good Luck hun!!!

awww that's sweet!

just write from your heart. lol, i know i know easy for me to say.

hmmm, you could start by saying You've made it. then, probably quote lines from your previous vows (if you still have it). the say you would want to keep those vows with him. :)

oh my, i'm not that creative too.

That is a really good idea.
I hope you don't get anyone else to write them for you.
They will not turn out as meaningful or as beautiful if someone else does it for you.
I read the other comments and agree with them, sit and put on paper some memories and try not to think about how it sounds but how it feels.
All your friends here on myLot know that you write very well and are coherent in what you say.
One of the things you could do to fool your brain into gear is pretend you are writing it for a friend.
We can tell you are a good writer by the discussions you post.
Have confidence that you can do this, and have fun with it. Susan

I think that you should just write what you feel about him. Don't think about it too much. It will just come naturally. Just act as if you were talking to only him and telling him how much you love and appreciate spending your life together. I'm sure you'll do great! Good Luck!

Hi mamasan thats such a lovely idea.

You had interesting answers to your discussion so far and I would also recommend you just sit down and write down the things you already do to make your marriage a good and successful one. You could then work that into your vows to say, I will continue to....... (back you up in times of need, put your needs before my own, give you a helping hand when you need it).

Wow...I've never been in the spot to have to write my own vows. I really like the traditional ones. My only suggestion is just to write what's in your heart. Take your time and write from your heart.

"COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS"

**AT PEACE WITHIN**

~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~

My fiance and I are actually writing the whole ceremony ourselves becuase we're not Christian, but we're spiritual and romantic. Standard phrases don't really work for us. I have a few ceremony styles and vow books that I research from. There are tons of write-your-own-vow books out there.

You can also pull from poems, sonnets, movies, plays, songs or quotes to help verbalize how you feel if you can't think of anything eloquent enough on your own.