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myLot reputation of 77/100. Annilyn (103)10 months ago

I do believe my husband is cheating on me. He works with this girl and they have been talking on his cell and texts! He calls her BRIGHT EYES and tells her he misses her and hes depressed because he cant to see her that often. He now deletes all the texts and he has a lot of UNKNOWN callers on his cell. How the hell do I catch him... I need good ideas, crazy ideas!!! I want to hear all the stories!

 
 
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tags:  cheating, catching a cheat, liars, catch, life
 
1. myLot reputation of 83/100. delladidit (312)   10 months ago

...My ex used our home computer to cheat on me. I found the emails, copied them and put them in a safe place. He is'nt very smart, because he talked to one of my best friends and said he was cheating. DA!!
...Do you get to see the phone bill? If so, keep it or copy it and highlight the UNKNOWN and this girl's number on it. How does text messaging show up on phone bill? Highlight any you tihnk may be to or from her. Keep it in a safe place.
...Do you know how to get into his email? If you think he is emailing her, try to get copies of these. A computer foreinsic can retrieve anything he has opened and deleted on your home computer. Log dates you think he has done this.
...Keep a journal and write down things like, "He said he misses her" or "he got a call from "UNKNOWN" again and talked for 10 minutes." Write down when he is late coming home or leaves earlier than he normally does. Write down anything you suspect.
...Do you know of anyone else who has witnessed his behavior with this girl or about her? Has any of your friends heard him talk about her? Log those things in your journal, too.
...Can you stop in unannounced? PI's can be expensive, but usually worth the money for a few days work. I had one to retrieve my ex's police reports. He was arrested 4x's during our marriage.
...If you are thinking you will divorce him because he is cheating on you, I encourage you to start stashing money. Open your own account and have the statement sent to a family member or close friend or your church. (I got my own cell phone because he turned mine off twice and had my statements set to my church. I chair a board, so they just put them in my box.) I had my girlfriend open an account in her name for me to stash money. A little here and there will really help. I would also encourage you to attend a divorce seminar. They are usually free. If there are not any in your area, start calling attorney's who do divorce. Many will give first counseling free. You must start to protect your assets now. Even if you are not thinking of divorce right now, start putting money away.
...Good luck with this. Start writing down questions you may have for an attorney, too.
...Peace be with you.=(^;^)= Della

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2. mvreyes (72)   10 months ago

don't think there's a need to catch somebody cheating ....

instict always prevails...

you don't have to know hi/her whats and whereabouts from time to time... you'll know by heart if something has changed...

cheating is bad but we have to look into it deeper... it takes two person to make a good relationship gooing and it takes two person to make it worst...

cheating is a bad habit, and lack of something leads to it.. it's up to you to know what it is, coz it is you...and only you can tell what went wrong... but the most important of all... it takes both of you to make things right.

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3. myLot reputation of 56/100. spacecreature (108)   10 months ago

I don't know how to catch him but it sounds to me that you have already you know he has pet names for her and hhe misses her and doesn't have much time with her. Girl I think you have what you need.

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4. summer07 (19)   10 months ago

I have a good idea that you can follow yuor husband.If yuo catch his and other women together .you can ask him why he do

 
5. myLot reputation of 93/100. sergeantrom (884)   9 months ago

There is a website made just for women. They deal with infidelity especially internet infidelity, cheating signs, books, tests, forums, stories from other readers. You can check out the orange box on my profile called "do not date online"

 
6. zhouzhenchinese (9)   3 months ago

i find these information from website.i think it will helpful to some women.many women mistakenly believe they need to hire a private investigator or buy expensive software or surveillance equipment to catch a cheating husband.if you're familiar with the signs of infidelity,all you really need are your own eyes and ears and your personal knowledge of your mate.the key is knowing what to look for.
The information below on how to catch a cheating husband is adapted from chapter 4 of is he cheating on you? -829 telltale signs.this comprehensive guide documents practically every known warning sign of infidelity,including a multitude of little known signs not listed anywhere else.it includes signs a private investigatou is unlikely to find, signs so subtle that a cheating man wouldn't even think to cover them up;and signs which will help you pinpoint the identity of the other woman.
for your convenience,the signs of infidelity in "is he cheating on you?" are grouped into 21 categories so you can easily locate the signs that apply to your husband.lok through the signs,then give yourself a reasonable period of time(up to 2 weeks) to search for clues.watch your husband.pay close attention to everything he says or does.while it's true that some telltale signs are subtle,most are easy to spot,when you know what you're looking for.if you stay alert to what's going on,you're unlikely to miss any significant signs.
oh,it's too long.if you are interesting it,then click here http//:ezinearticles.com/?how-to-catch-A-cheating-husband&id=6324

 
7. myLot reputation of 93/100. mizcash (445)   3 months ago

I am sorry I can't tell you how to catch a cheating husband on the public forum but I'll try and send it to your inbox. Keep all your records she sends him, you want to keep those safe inase you decide to go to court male sure you sue her also because she knows that he is married ...there is no scorn like a jinxed woman's.

 
8. myLot reputation of 79/100. excellence7 (1156)   3 months ago

No need to run for ideas...let time do its work..its time itself which will be the solution to all your problems. It is said that time is the greatest healer. He will come in the trap by himself, let time do its work.,

 
9. myLot reputation of 95/100. halina23 (1125)   3 months ago

Who gets the cell phone bill? That's where you can start checking and maintain a record of his calls. Also, once you get this girl's number, you can do a reverse phone trace online and get her address. Good luck!

 
10. test1970 (15)   3 months ago

when you suspect it, it is allready to late. My experience always.

 
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