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myLot reputation of 87/100. Modestah (7912)   ranked 1,076 out of 26,919 in people 5 years ago

do you have any *fun* traditions your family keeps during this time of the year?
Today starts Advent and it is my birthday. We have kept a tradition of going out and cutting down our Christmas Tree on my birthday, it is something fun the kids look forward to every year. It is getting less fun for my poor beloved husband though who's body aches terrible. Back in the early years of our marriage we lived in upstate NY, in the snow belt. It was inevitable that the snow would be falling during our trek through the woods. It was always such a lovely thing! DH would lay in the snow sawing away at the base of the perfect tree, the air crisp and fresh, the snow tickling our noses.... we looked forward to the thermos of hot cocoa after we got the tree hauled down to the car and loaded on top snug and safe....
later on we moved to the southwest, here there was rarely any sort of snow on the ground especially in early December, but the wind whipped wildly and it was cold... we had to go to a tree farm to choose our tree, and dh would lay on the pine needled earth and saw away... when he was done cutting the tree down the kids would pile up on top of it for a Tree ride (dh dragging it from the tip end to the car)
that was great fun for dh and the kids.

We are now in the midwest wishing that someone hadn't stolen our dog... he was so strong!!!! we could have tied him to the tree and let him pull it to the car with the kids straddled for the ride, I am afraid that dh won't be able to do it anymore and the 5 yo just won't have that precious memory... we will have to come up with something else... maybe the 18 yo would do it for her, surely he does not have an inkling to ride on the prickly tree anymore.

another tradition we have is to have the children place straw into the manger for each of their good deeds, they also have to remove straw for each of their bad deeds.... depending on how good they have been they have made the Infant Christ more comfortable or less. It is a good lesson on how their behaviour affects others especially how it affects Christ. We do not lay the Infant into the manger crib until Christmas Day (midnight if we are home)

 

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misheleen73 (3135) response was accepted on 2/21/2008.
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tags:  adventures, birthday, christmas, christmas trees, family
 
1. myLot reputation of 98/100. misheleen73 (3135)   ranked 631 out of 26,919 in people   5 years ago

First, Happy Birthday !!! My kids, hubby and I don't have any "traditions" as of yet. Unfortunately, my hubby comes from a different country that doesn't really "celebrate" Christmas, so he never grew up with any. I used to have some, but when my Grandma died when I was 10 or so, we stopped any and all traditions. I do always sit with my boys and read "T'was the Night Before Christmas" every Christmas Eve, but that's it. This year we are in the process of buying a house, which I am hoping will help us be more "stable" in environment, and maybe we will have a certain day to decorate, etc. We always decorate together (the boys and I) Hubby just doesn't "get it" but he plays along rather nicely..lol. He even laughed like Santa once and banged on the chimney in one apt that had a fireplace. Our boys still talk about how they "heard" Santa. SO nothing "traditional" but we try to make each year memorable. Your traditions sound lovely and I am sure your kids will remember them their entire lives.


myLot reputation of 87/100. Modestah (7912)   ranked 1,076 out of 26,919 in people  5 years ago

thank you for the birthday greeting! I is so nice to "see" you Misheleen! oh I think having your own home will help lots in building traditions :) my husband is not generally involved with the decorating or much of the "Christmas Spirit" he had a pretty rotten childhood and i think much of that has stayed with him... he is best out of the way as he gets too stressed out.... maybe that is why the tree cutting (the one thing he does do) is so precious to us.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. CEN7777 (588)   ranked 5,478 out of 26,919 in people   5 years ago

hi Modestah, HAPPY BIRTH DAY TO YOU.Live long life of more than 100 years. and every year will hav fifty thousand days.
yeh in India we have so many tradition btu we are not forced to follow them strictly.


myLot reputation of 87/100. Modestah (7912)   ranked 1,076 out of 26,919 in people  5 years ago

thank you for the kind birthday thoughts!

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