Should I get married to my boyfriend if he won't take a lie detector test???????

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I have been with my boyfriend three and a half years. I am a virgin and I decide to wait until marriage. Well when we first started going together I had a few questions. I asked him if he was a virgin he said yes. He said I am the first girl he has ever kissed. I asked him if he has ever been to any strip clubs or hooters and he said no. So here I am in this little dream world that thinks she has got this honest man. Well a few months back he had something to tell me. He is not a virgin. He has had relations with one girl. He has been to strip clubs about three times. And he has been to hooters about three times. He has also admitted to other stuff. I felt so special because I thought we were meant to be and that God put us together for a reason. I was so heartbroken when I found all of this out. I split up with him for a few days and talked it over with my family. So we got back together and we talked about things. I forgave him for what he lied about. I still think about it often and I feel broke inside. He told me from now on he is going to tell me the truth. And be completely honest with me. Yesterday I just got a weird vibe with him. So I asked him this question. I said before we get married I want you to take a lie detector test. He said no I am not going to take it. He said he wants me to believe him from his mouth. And not from some test. He wants me to trust him. I am afraid that when I forgave him for everything he might of left something out. Is there a reason he don't want to take the test? Should I stay with him? Do lie detector tests really work? Let me know if you have any advice for me. Thank you and God Bless You!!