During an argument, what brings results, tears, raging or claming up ?

India
December 14, 2007 12:01am CST
Very often during an argument with my husband, I have realsied that the only way to make him see sense ( i.e. if I am sure he is wrong ) is to clam up. I stop talking for a day and he comes back to normal. How do you cope with arguments.
2 responses
shak143
@shak143 (1279)
• India
14 Dec 07
During argument first get bursted and see whether opposite persons getting my feeling are not if he is then be cool and explain ones again.if he is not getting means then follow your procedure dont talk tehy will come to you and listens to you.i dont know why they wont do this initially.
ketybhagat
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
19 Dec 07
ha ha, men and their egos, that is why they wont listen to reason initially. Well, so long as they understand, better late than never.
tiffiny
@tiffiny (872)
• United States
14 Dec 07
I will wait untill I know I won't say anything really mean. Then I'll calmly talk to him about what ever is bugging me. I've only broken this rule twice in almost 4 years of marriage. And even when I did it was ok and we worked it out.
ketybhagat
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
19 Dec 07
u must be the most level headed person. Imagine having to stay calm when your seems are bursting to erupt. Great going if you can talk it over.