To be with the one u love or with the one who loves u??

haha.. That's great for u as u found the love of your life:) hehe.. There's isn't a real answer to this even as ple see things from different angle:) hehe

there isn't a real answer to this question:) it's just an opinion from ple and try to see it from their angle:)

hmmmm. yup.. Both are important because a relationship cant do without any of them:)

true
hope u get both
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Thank you and have a nice day:) Thanks for responding too:)

yup.. i agree.. but we must be fair also.. we must also love the person who loves us.. If not, the relationship wun be able to last:)

nope, i dunno about that song.. hehe.. u are right, secret.. choosing to be with the one who loves u may be better because the someone will be always trying to make u happy and place u in tip priority.. But no matter how, the sumone is still not the one u love and thus, we may start to imagine that it's actually the one we love, doing all these things.. hehe.. In a way, it's gonna be very unfair.. BUt life is always unfair.. LOL.. So for me, i will choose to be with the person i love instead^_^

the song goes "are you gonna stay with the one you love or are you going back with the one who loves you..."^__^

I guess its better to be unfair to ourselves than to be unfair with other people. at least our conscience won't be bugging us.^__^

oh.. the song suits my discussion.. hehe^_^ If given a choice, who wun wanna be loved?? So i guess, when being loved by someone, the feeling is good rather than to love someone.. UNfair may be wat we feel only, but the other party may not feel so as they may feel it's worth the wait for us to love them.. hehe^_^
And yup, always be straight forward and dun give false hope to someone u dun like, so that he knows it and it wun be conscious bugging for u too^_^

right.^__^

anyways, there's a lot to be considered hen faced with that kind of situation and not only the feelings. I still wouldn't know what to do if ever i'm faced with that kind of situation.^__^ i'll just cross the bridge when I get there.

Yeah, nobody will really know wat to do when we are really faced with that situation.. And wat we say and think now, may not be wat we will do.. hehe^_^
BUt no matter wat, just follow your heart and everything will be fine.. hehe

you're right. what we are saying right now might not be the thing would do next.^__^

i don't think everything will be alright if we follow our hearts. most of the time, when we follow our hearts, we get into trouble. LOL

haha.. Because your heart wun lie to u.. ANd when u get hurt the most, it means that u really love him alot.. hehe^_^ Thus, no hurt no love.. hehe

of course. we wouldn't truly appreciate love if we haven't experienced being hurt.^__^

sometimes if it's 1 sided love, than it's too bad.. Hurting them for the short moment is better than prolong the hurt and giving false hope^_^

yeah. i know how that feels. its unfair to give false hopes and so no matter how it would hurt, i would stop the relationship if its one-sided. than have both of us suffer for a long time.

yup^_^ That's it,secret.. hehe

Indeed, both ways are sad.. But make the full use of it and touch each party thru sincerity.. Regardless of the one who loves u or the one u love, once either party is touched, a nice realtionship will begin:)

wa.. so serious ah.. LOL.. i will rather choose to be with the one i love.. because, if i dun like someone, no matter what they do, i also still wun like them.. But when i love someone, nop matter wat they do, i will still love them without any feelings lost.. hehe

I have a friend who has chased after this gal for one year. No matter what he does, she is only touched but she cannot accept him no matter what. In this case, I think it's really not worth it for my friend to stick to her because she may eventually find a person she likes and who likes her too and leave my friend. That would be very sad for my friend.

BUt once feel touched, they is a chance for her to fall for him.. Though the chance is not that great, but the chance is there.. and it's not that easy to touch a person no matter how easy the gal may say that she can be easily touched=P
My fen choose to be with the one who loves him, but it's a fatal mistake because she's just out to cheat money and in the end, my fren eneded up with mountains of debt to pay:(

It's really a tough decision to make when it comes to love issues.. hehe.. When given a choice, being loved is a good thing but we wun get past our own conscious when we dun love them back.. it's like wat u say, guilty.. But no matter wat, if think back, the situation is just like u loving someone but haven get responds yet, just that now the situation is reverse.. MAybe that will help u come to a decision better:) hehe
Have a good day too:)

and maybe it's not necessary to make such decision someday i will meet my mr.right and we maybe love each other.
hehe,another option.

HAha.. That's not an option but rather the solution.. LOL.. Mr and Mrs right, is the solution to each relationship.. hehe.. May u find your Mr right soon^-^ hehe

oh,thank you.
i wish i can find my Mr.Right soon.
thanks for your wish.

^_^ u'r welcome.. HAve a good day:)

u are the 1st to say, to be with the one who loves u^_^ I agree with u that love the someone for who u are.. Everybody has got their own character and when u really love that person, u will accept it and not try to change that person.. ONce u do that, he/she will not be the same person again and definitely not the same person we loved b4^_^

Yup.. being loved is a wonderful feeling and u can be cared for like and loved in a very special way.. Everytime u see other other, he will make it a point to make u feel special and good:)