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cyndysue5 (19) 5 years ago

People are too judgemental these days.My experience lately has been that people assume they know all the facts of a situation, when they actually do not know enough about it to chime in with thier opinion.

My brother spent seven years in prison for something that he did not do. All he really did was correct his child, and attempt to keep his wife, and family out of harm's way. Regardless of the facts of the case, he was charged with offenses he had no part of. He is currently home with us now, and phyically a free man, but psychologically, he spends every day hoping he does not go back in custody. He never says that too often, but all I have to do is watch his actions, and body language. He is very special to me and I try to be there for him always, but I can not erase his past. Believe me if I could it would be my first priority in my life. My life started again the day he came home!!!!!!!!!!!! Unfortunately, the rest of the world is still judging him.. That's fine, But I know his heart, and soul. It is not really fair that this is happening to him. Feel free to add your advice. I am proplexed for a solution to this issue. My brother is the reason I survive in this world. all options seem open to him, but every door seems to close, once he is honest about things with most people. They don't know what they are missing not having him in thier lives. I am a lucky "Lil Sis", as he calls me. He is here today, and will be tomorrow, and they next, but others doubts and judgement hurt the worst, because as well as I know him,they haven't even made the effort to try. They don't know what they are missing!!!!!!!!!!! What are your thoughts?

 

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