Like can anyone help me out, cause im in a crisis with my girlfriend!
By Deab1219
@Deab1219 (94)
United States
January 7, 2008 6:32pm CST
well like i've been with her for about 8 months. Now there this chick that i kant seem to shake off and she's been the main problem in our whole relationship from day one. Me and my being stupid and her just being there are gettingready to break me and my girlfriend up. Throughout this whole time it's been off and on between me and my girl we'll be good then i mess up wiith the same chick and i mean i can see where it could be tiring but i dont want her to leave. though she like has for given me three times. and i guess i havent gotten the picture that she means business when she says getting ready to leave. i just dont what to do. every thing was okay for a month then the other chick threw the love word to me and i didnt what to say so i paniced, i didnt know what to do so i said it right back thinking it would go away but it just kept coming back and wouldnt stop.
i just go t caught up in it until i thought i actually did but really when i really thought about it i didnt. While this is going on i still have my girlfriend and things were getting good she was actually trusting me from all the other times it happened but she got on my web page(i think) and found all of those notes and the thing that she told me that got her the most was the fact that i told the chick that i loved her on our 8 month anniversary. I really dont know what to do about and i know its done with me and chick. i know that for sure, nothing will ever come between her again if she forgives me, but its not looking good but i really dont want her to go. so m just asking if any one has anything to say postive or negative i wwill take them both.
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@javmagik029 (187)
• United States
25 Jan 08
most guys come across this scenario some point through a relationship. have i? yes many times. my girlfriend and i have gotten through it and if you can make it through and be honest it really makes your real relationship with your girlfriend stronger and earn more trust. if you lie you dig a huge hole for yourself. dumb on my part, i did that once and im not out yet. they love to hold stuff over your head, for couple months, years, heck, if you end up getting married they might hold it against you for the rest of your life. hang in there bud sh*t happens in relationship. ppl are young and make mistakes but ppl move on. hold this sorta helps. any questions just hit me up.
@Armstrong7886 (303)
• United States
15 Jan 08
Hang in there man. Yes, you did a stupid thing and I can't say I'd blame your girl if she didn't forgive you this time. But from what you say you really love this girl and you don't want to lose her so you are going to have to do everything you can to prove to her that she can trust you, that she is your only one. Maybe that would mean deleting all of the people from your web site that she feels threatened by or something like that. Or just tell her how you feel, that is one problem I have with my fiancee, I don't tell her enough how I feel. If she does leave you and you want her back then do what it takes to stay in her life and show her you want her back, don't be going out with other girls or anything, you gotta stay faithful if you want it to work out man. I hope this has helped and good luck to you and your girl.
