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|  Just last week, my partner of over a year and 7 months broke up with me through email. We've been in a long distance relationship for a while, so that was our only form of communication.
He said something about there being a family problem and him not being able to get online anymore. He said that the feelings we once had for each other aren't as there as they used to be. He said that I should just move on and think of him well. But his last line was, I love you.
I was completely devastated. The first few days were really the hardest because I had no idea what to do anymore. Everything within me completely shut down. I still don't know what to do about it. Should I move on, or should I wait for him? He did say he still loves me. Sigh.
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1.  babykeka80 (1258)
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5 years ago
| |  Once there is a deep relationship or committment without there being anything to cause you to change your feelings towards that person you will always have a certain amount of love for him/her. It will not be the same as when the relationship was good but it will always be there. You need to just move on. There is nobody worth putting your life on hold for and he is obviously ready to move on. It hurts at first but time heals and it will get easier. Do things that you enjoy and things to help improve your overall quality of life. Believe me one day there will be someone that means just as much if not 10x more. It is hard to believe that right now but there will be. Good luck.
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| piatos03 (316)
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5 years ago
| | Yeah, you're probably right. I built my whole future around him and left too little for myself. I've been trying to move on as well. Busying myself with everything but sometimes, you just can't help it when he suddenly slips through your thoughts, and then you get barraged with memories of the times you had together. Thanks for the luck, I seriously need it. | | | |
| babykeka80 (1258)
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5 years ago
| | Been there done that. It seems like the end of the world but really it is not. Over time you will think of him less and less. You are not the first nor the last person to ever deal with this sort of thing. It is just all part of life. | | | |
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| 2. JoyceRenee (45)
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5 years ago
| |  I'm sorry to hear that your relationship has broken up. Was the relationship long distance from the beginning? How from from each other do you live? Can you talk to him on the phone to get a better explanation? I'd need more information before I could decide which way to go.
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3.  aseretdd (6862)
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5 years ago
| |  Most of the time... long distance relationshiops are doomed to be over because of the lack of communication and physical time together... i think you should move on with your life and try to find someone more worthy of your time and love... that is the best thing for you to do because i believe that is what he is doing right now...
He said that he still loves you to make you feel better... so better no wait for him since i don't think that is what he wants you to do...
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| piatos03 (316)
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5 years ago
| | Sigh, I never thought of it that way. I mean, I've always stayed positive because maybe he said that because it's true, and not because he just wants to make me feel better. Thanks. | | | |
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| 4. AICIRT81 (565)
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5 years ago
| |  The last line was I LOVE YOU? Breaking up with somebody you love doesnt make any sense. Why is the relationship long distance? Is he in the military? Breaking up via email is a bad idea to begin with. I think you need to evaluate the situation and go from there, figure out if you are better off in the long run with or without. Not knowing the history of the relationship makes it hard to advise. Why can't you talk on the phone?
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| piatos03 (316)
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5 years ago
| | He said he loves me but that the feelings weren't as strong anymore. And I seriously want to talk to him, but I can't get a hold of him. He's not in the military. He's just studying abroad. | | | |
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5.  season0907 (1800)
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5 years ago
| |  Hi piatos03,
This is what happens if partners are in different and distance places.I have noticed this not only in your case but with many other cases of this nature. I think this is good that it had happened before marriage and reletionship. You have to say goodby and move on. I know how difficult it is. But when he said very clerly, why should you want to hang on. His last word 'I love you' is a natural instinct and not a true instinct of love to ask you wait.
Don't unnecessaryly imagine some thing that is not going to happen and put your life in to trouble -- just move on.
Good Luck.
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| 6. abdulwahab468 (274)
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5 years ago
| |  listen he said that he loves u but he also broke up.
for u it may b difficult but it is reality. he must have liked u but its now over.
time is a great healer. and dont wait for him.
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7.  subha12 (16391)
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5 years ago
| |  It is really very sad. But i have seen many relationship breaks like this. I do not know the eaxct reason. i can understand your situation after such a breakup.May be it is another disadvatage of long distance reklationship. It may be because he is no longer interested in you, have made such a comment and also he wants you to take him in good spirit.Best of luck. I think you will find real good match soon.
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8.  dlsheng (121)
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5 years ago
| |  don't believe him.
when a man don't love a woman he always has many reasons to leave the woman.
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| 9. garnet80 (327)
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5 years ago
| |  Let him go. He broke it off and yes he might have said he loves you but it could just be a way of signing off the email. Or else it could just be that he loves you but is not in love with you anymore or that he loves you but just can't do the long distance thing anymore. I hope that this makes sense to you what I have written. I wasn't quite sure how to word it.
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| piatos03 (316)
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5 years ago
| | Yes, haha, I pretty much get the gist of what you said. Maybe he's just used to saying it to end the email, so he used it this one last time. :( | | | |
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| 10. debbie97420 (15)
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5 years ago
| | Dear piatos03
I am so sorry about your break-up I know how bad it hurts. You don't know what went wrong and if you are using e-mail how can you ask questions they can just ignore you and worse delete the e-mail. To be honest it sounds like he said I love you just so he would not feel so guilty about not breaking up with you in person. If he still loved you he would not have ended the relationship. He took the easy way out by doing it through e-mail and I love you was so you would not get mad. I know this sounds harsh but he kind of sounds like a jerk and I definitely think you should move on. There are some really great men out there who would treat you a lot better. Life is to short to sit by the computer. You should get out and have some fun. I hope you will start by calling some close friends for moral support.It helps to heal quicker by talking it all out with someone you trust. I wish you all the best
debbie97420
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| piatos03 (316)
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5 years ago
| | Thank you. I've actually been talking to some of my close friends for support right now. None of them expected it to happen either because he was a really sweet guy. They're now trying to introduce me to their friends but it's really hard to get to it. I can easily say, "yeah sure, tell me when and I'll be there." But when it comes right down to it, I'll always be backing out at the last minute because I'll feel guilty or something. | | | |
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