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myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting8 months ago

Here it is, winter, about 20 degrees outside so it is kinda cold inside, and my toddler REFUSES to wear a shirt!! It doesn't help that he has a cold either. I don't know what it is, but he just absolutely loves to run around either half-way naked or ALL the way. Every time we put the clothes back on, he just takes them right back off!! It's so frustrating because I'm trying the best I can to keep him warm and WHOOSH...off comes the shirt

What in the heck can I do? I've thought about duct-taping his clothes on, but luckily we don't have any. It's just so frustrating!! The only thing I can think of is just let him be happy and let him run around the way he wants to...I'm just so afraid that his cold is gonna get worse!! But how do you tell a 2 year old that it is for the best??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. babykeka80 (862)   ranked 134 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

My daughter is the same way. She is suffering with bronchitis right now. It is miserable. The weather here is not quite as cold there but I discipline her right now for taking her clothes off. I tell her it will make her sick. She is really advanced for her age though so she listens really well.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

Awe, I'm so sorry to hear that she is that sick!! I've had bronchitis before and know how miserable she is. And mine is very smart as well, but VERY stubborn. I tell him and he just looks at me like "WHATEVER mommy, whoosh, there ya go!!" I try to discipline him, but after the tenth time of doing that and then trying to locate the shirt or pants or sometimes both, I usually just give up.


myLot reputation of 93/100. babykeka80 (862)   ranked 134 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

She has been so pitiful. Just lays around and cries and whines. She is one of those kids that never seems to be sick so when she is she gets a big dose of it. I hate to see her sick I would much rather take it myself. It breaks my heart to see her like that.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

Awe man, just hearing about it breaks my heart!! My oldest was prone to upper-respiratory infections and ear infections a lot under the age of 2, now all he gets are little colds thank god. I felt so bad for him when he had to go through that, so I completely understand what you both are going through right now.

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2. myLot reputation of 38/100. zukepr (10142)   ranked 890 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

You got any safety pins?
Safety pin the bottom of his shirt to the top of his pants
Kind of hard to take either off if they are safety pinned together LOL
We have had to do that to our kids before
Sure they get frustrated and tug and cry but eventually they give up hehe


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

WOW!! I never thought about that...but I don't have any!!:( Man, maybe that's why my mom had so many when I was growing up!!


blackoutbee (34)   ranked 11,420 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

but if they tug real hard the pins might eventually get lose and they might be even be hurt with those. i think i'd go for the duct tape. hehehe. just kidding.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

You make a very valid point and I didn't think about that!! But a poster below recommended baby safety pins and that just might work...

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3. Kandikisses (40)   ranked 6,833 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

OK I know this sounds funny but just let him be, if he is cold he will let you know. My 3yr old is the same way and I had to talk to the doctor about it cuz really I was affaid that he would get sick. The doctor is the one who told me to let him go as long as he is in the house and the heat is on he is good.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

Ya, that's pretty much what I have resorted to. Usually when he wants a shirt on he will bring me one so that I can put it on. So far he hasn't though today.

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. lightningd (730)   ranked 1,787 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

This is going to sound funny, but here goes. My oldest child when he was a toddler, wouldn't leave his clothes on either, but something I noticed, when he got cold, he looked for his blanket or put his clothes back on. Kids are funny. Even now, my youngest, who is 16, leaves for school in the mornings with just a hoodie on over his t-shirt. Kids have fewer problems regulating their body temperatures, and are less affected by cold temperatures. They radiate energy and heat.

Both my kids got the occasional cold, but neither were very sick. It seemed to me they got sick from catching bugs at school more than they did when they were toddlers and ran around naked all the time.

If you're just staying at home, don't fret about it. If you have to go somewhere.... and he won't keep clothes on, then you might want to invest in some duct tape.J/K/

Seriously though, it's a stage. As for his cold, keeping him bundled up isn't going to make a difference either way. If he's running a fever, then the fewer clothes the better. No clothes just makes it easier for his body to eliminate the fever, much like cool baths.

Hope that helps!


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

That does, thanks. We recently put a shirt on him and so far he has kept it on! But he is so much like me in that he is naturally hot natured and doesn't want a shirt on because he gets hot faster and makes it worse on him.

But thanks, that does make me feel better!!

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5. myLot reputation of 22/100. urbandekay (3277)   ranked 5,201 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

Well 20 is hot, don't worry, it'll be good for him

all the best urban


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

LoL, thanks!!

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. joyce423 (953)   ranked 3,533 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

I have the same sentiments with you. It's really cold during dawn and my toddler wants to sleep in sleeveless shirt. And doesn't even want to have a blankie on. It really frustrates me when she does that because I don't want her get cold and worst, have runny nose. I actually doesn't have anything to advice to you but actually share the same sentiments and just read advices here. Hope we could do something about this.:) God bless.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

Thank you for responding any way even though you don't have any advice. I am sorry that you have to go through this as well and hopefully both of us can get some help. Actually the safety pin idea sounds really good!!


myLot reputation of 98/100. ersmommy1 (5657)   ranked 179 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

The safety pin idea IS a great idea. 1 thing. try and get the baby safe safety pins.They have safety heads on them.Different Animal Shapes in Plastic Heads they lock and don't accidentally pop open and stick the baby. Another thing, if your child is as active as mine was at that age,like most when they are running around they put off some heat. Something that also works with my daughter a robe. She likes her short sleeved Super girl jammies. They are for summer and not nearly warm enough. So we compromise alot with her fav character robe. Target carries a few.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

Wow, baby safety pins...I forgot about those!! Thanks I will keep that in mind if he continues to drive me crazy!!

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7. vialdana (49)   ranked 6,834 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

2 suggestions for you...

Firstly - Bribery. Ok, I know that doesn't sound a great idea, but if you can do it in a sort of subtle way that has him wearing clothes or he can't have the lovely yummy yoghurt you've got in your hand;) or No sorry mummy doesn't want to play with little boys who won't keep their shirt on, and then look sad, that might work.

The other suggestion, is try him in clothing he can't remove! A pair of elasticated trousers with a nice sweatshirt, and then pop a button on to the inside either side of the trousers and a loop on the inside of the sweater so when you dress him, he can't remove them.

(Actually thought of a third... What about saying 'oh clever you, you can take your trousers off.. I bet you can't put them on again though. Make him think dressing is just as clever as undressing.)


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

I am sorry but you made me laugh...and not in a bad/mean way. But the first thing I saw was the bribery and I have tried that many times, but he still goes to a quiet little corner to undress. I'll try your suggestion about putting a button on and use some elastic, that sounds very smart and logical to do...too bad I didn't think about it!! And I tried your idea of "putting them back on", but with one of those warm onesies that zip up and it actually works!! Now he sits there and zips and unzips it rather than zip and whoosh he's naked again. So thanks for the tips, they really helped!!

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. lamb101 (821)   ranked 573 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

hi there
i have the same problem with my 2.3yr old the drs @ the hosp all say that if grace gets cold she will let you know but i am finding if she is cold she will shut the doors & try 2 dress me even if i dont feel cold it's a pain bt hey thats grace for u but she now has a bitting problem when has her epileptic fitz (they actually look as if a dog has bitten her which is very scarey to say the least)
so now she has no choice but to where skivvy's & the like of that & gloves so as doesnt bite so far into her skin until we see john clarkson her paediatrcian on the 28th of jan nxt monday
i think a bit of bribery may help too with enablling him 2 with the likes of make him think it's his idea to do not yours
good luck aye
latas lamb101 xoxoxoxoxo


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

AWE, that is so cute that she dresses you rather than herself...means that you are being a good mom and she is learning by your example, but it's a little backwards...still cute though! But I'm sorry to hear about the "epileptic fitz", I have a friend who has the same thing so I know how awful it is to see her go through that.

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9. myLot reputation of 91/100. Stephanie5 (1559)   ranked 108 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

My kids are the same way. The 6 year old finally realizes that he wouldn't be so cold if he left his clothes on but my 3 year old (who just turned 3 yesterday) will NOT keep clothes on during the day or at night. In fact, she strips down to nothing every single night and pees all over everything! SO, not only is she naked but she and all her bed clothes are also wet! I'm about to duct tape her clothes on her! I know she'd get the tape and the clothes back off in no-time! Good luck.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

Oh my gosh, my oldest is the same way!! He use to complain all the time about being cold so we would tell him to get some clothes on (he would be in shorts and sleeveless shirt). But now when he is cold he'll put his jacket on himself...I just have to laugh because he will do that when he has shorts on! So I STILL have to tell him to get better clothes on!! And I'm sorry to hear that she strips down and pees on everything at night, hopefully you are able to put a stop to it real soon. How long has she been doing that? Sounds to me like she is the one that needs the duct tape!! LoL!! Good luck to you too, you need it more than I do!!


myLot reputation of 91/100. Stephanie5 (1559)   ranked 108 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

She's been doing that since she was about a year. I'm telling you, this girl is too smart for her own good. If you look back over the discussions I've started you would see that she is quite the handful! She knows how to unbuckle, untape, unstrap, undo anything and everything! She gets into and on everything. I've had to call poison control so many timmes it's not even funny. And it's not like I don't watch her! If I try to go to the bathroom and don't take her in there with me and hold onto her,she will get into everything in the 2 minutes it takes me to potty! Girls, girls, girls! None of my boys weere even close to being this bad!


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

That is too funny!! My boy is the same way-the one that this discussion is about!! At first I would take him into the bathroom with me so that I could keep an eye on him, now he's so used to going with me that he has a fit. But we have a latch on our fridge, shoelaces tying our cupboards up-they are designed weird and none of the baby latches fit. Thank goodness I only use a selected few cleaners so that I can keep them up on a shelf...when I first put them under the sink he got into them all the time. He turns our radio off and on all the time along with the t.v-so we are screwed if we are trying to watch a DVD. And what doors we have with locks on them are locked because he can open them as well. Oh, and he uses his tonka dump truck to get up to the sink and whatever else he wants to get into. I was told by his dad's mom that his dad was the same way, was a little climber and got into everything...so I was prepared when he got into the garbage while he was in his walker.

So I definitely understand and sympathize with you. When called a handful, they live up to their name!! LoL!!

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10. myLot reputation of 75/100. cherylal (6383)   ranked 1,314 out of 12,123 in parenting   8 months ago

I understand that you are worried to much with your 2 year old Son but absolutely he will not understand and I do remember my friends daughter that during winter time she does not want to wear longsleeve either but she is ok evn the shower time it is using cold water but Thanks God she is fine and so to your 2 year old Son, he will not be sicked because children have hot temperature not the same with adults.....


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  8 months ago

You're right about the body temperature, I didn't really think about that. I was more concerned with his cold than anything else. But he seems to be fine now.


myLot reputation of 93/100. mrslisae (1098)   ranked 21 out of 12,123 in parenting  7 months ago

He needs a set of shirts that he'll love to wear. His favorite character or color. If you can't afford them, do what I did. I bought a little tube of puff paint and let my daughter put hand prints and doodles all over her shirts...She was proud to wear those shirts and show them off to the world!


myLot reputation of 78/100. rosey3223 (838)   ranked 283 out of 12,123 in parenting  7 months ago

Well, since it's been a while that I've started this discussion, I've come to the conclusion that he likes to be naked...as Dana Carvey said "It's NAKEY TIME!!"

When we go out anywhere he is such a good little boy and leaves his clothes on. But as soon as we get home one by one the clothes start coming off. First come the shoes and socks, then an hour later the shirt, and then an hour (give or take) later off come the pants. I've grown quite accustomed to it so it doesn't bother me anymore. Actually as long as he is happy and isn't doing this outside of the home, there really isn't anything wrong with it. I was just concerned because he was sick, but then he proved to me that there was no need to worry...along with some other people that posted here.

But thanks for the suggestion. I will try that anyway!!

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