Are you arguing with your superior or with your staff in your work

I had this superior (kuno) who was very nosey and she made us feel that we didn't know what we were doing. For example when she went to check my room she aske me what the seating formation was. She was already looking at it and she had to ask me. She was so annoying. She was also very nosey and gossip monger. One time she dipped her nose with me and a new teacher who became very close to me. She came to our teachers' lounge and asked the guy if he had no intention to make our friendship go to another level. And I was there too. What a thick face! Anyway, I always had to argue with her because she always questioned something in my lesson plan. I had been in that school one year ahead of her and now she came telling me what to do when I'm already used to the system.

Yes there are arguments between boss and his staff, but I personally think that rather than arguing the better solution is tell the other person in a better manner so that he understands the fact and there is not argument. Obviously this has to happen from both sided and depends on people we are considering.