A friend of mine was invited by a Costco member as a guest and I told her
By suspenseful
@suspenseful (40192)
Canada
February 27, 2008 7:10pm CST
that if she is a guest, then she could buy something at Costco because it is a one time thing as long as she did not spend a lot. Now I was wondering whether that was the right advice. She and I are both devout Christians and we do not want to do anything remotely dishonest. I have been to Costco as a guest, but I did not buy anything because I did not want to get anything just yet. I am on a strict budget and I usually buy only the things that I need and I would not want to get anything just because it is cheaper there.
So if you are a member of Costco, can your guest buy anything or does she have to let you buy it for her and she pay for it afterwards?
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I'm not familure with Costco but am guessing it's something like our 'Sams' (owns WalMart) where you pay for a membership and make purchases at discounted prices. At Sam's the last I knew they allowed guests with a member but the member had to pay for the purchase. I don't think it's dishonest to do this - that's why the store lets members bring guests and figure the guest will be so happy with their cheaper price that they will become a member.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
29 Feb 08
I figured it was something like that. I like to pay things with my own credit card and not hand money over to a member friend to pay for it, so I guess I will not be going to Costco.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
28 Feb 08
You hit the nail on the head, on all aspects! And that's the bait for new members. Have a brilliant day!
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@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
28 Feb 08
We have a Sam's where I live, which I'm assuming is something like Costco. You buy in bulk. You have to be a member to even enter the store. I would always go with my mother because she was member and then just pay her back when we got in the car or gave her the money before we even went in. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I am a Christian as well, but I see nothing wrong with it what so ever. I mean you are technically buying yourself, the only thing you didn't do was pay for a membership, but if you only go every now and then I would see the sense in paying for a year's membership. I don't know, maybe that just me..thanks for posting and God bless
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
28 Feb 08
But it's a good thing some of us pay for memberships, or there would be no Sam's, Costco. LOL! If I have a friend that wants to go, their is no hardship for me.
Taking friends, other persons, is actually a benefit to me! I have an executive membership (because of my businesses) and at the end of the calendar year, if I have spent over a certain amount, I will get a percentage of those pdses. back!
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
5 Mar 08
We used to belong to Costco's but it did not pay because we only had two sons. If it paid for me to get a membership, I would. Many of my friends who have large families shop reguarly at Costcos, and for them the $10 membership if it is every year is paid for with the discounts they make. But for someone like me, I cannot see saving a lot of money even if I shop regular. And I would rather use my points or dividend credit cards.
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I am a member of Sams Club and like everyone else said the member has to be with you and make the purchase. There is a photo i.d. on there so the member has to be there. Before I became a member I would go with my husband and let him purchase. I don't know how it is at Costco but I would think it would be okay. I had never thought about it being dishonest. I admire your dedication to doing what is right. I consider myself to be an honest person but I would not have questioned this. Its a breath of fresh air to see someone so concerned with doing the right thing.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I do not think that Costco has a photo id, but its policy from what I heard is the same as Sam's. I do not want to get a membership because there is just the two of us now but since I love the points I get on Mastercard, it is hard to give my friend the cash and let her pay for me. If my husband and I could get everything at Costco it would be all right, but we shop at Superstore and he does a lot of shopping at Home Depot and I doubt that they sell lumber at Costco. I do not like being dishonest or cheating. I suppose if a guest paid when they should not have, the clerk would be deducted.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
Costco is a large discount store, sort of like Sam's Club. It buys things in large quantities, but you have to have a membership and the fee is usually $10, I think a year but not sure. Anyway you can recoup the fee if you have a large family and can make lots if purchases, but for a small family or a single person, it is not as good. A member can invite a guest (I have no idea how many invitations are allowed) but the guest cannot use her own check or I suppose credit or debit card until after she becomes a member. She has to give the member the cash or write her a check or promise to pay her later. I would not recommend the latter. Then the member pays for the guests's items herself.
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@slickcut (8140)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Here in Texas we have a simular store,its called "Sams Club" and you can invite a guest to go,and your guest can buy anything they want to that day,it does not matter how much you buy,its like a days pass...
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
We do not have Sams Club in Canada, but at Costco it seems if you are a member and you bring along a guest, the guest can buy things all right, but she cannot use her own credit card or debit card - I have no idea about checks - she has to give the member the money for the purchase. It does seem rather silly since if you are a guest, would you not be allowed to pay the item using your own credit card and then show them a guest pass?
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@bowtieguy (5915)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I have never been to one of these stores before, I think it is silly to have to be a mamber of a store to shop there. A ture store would open it's doors to all potential customers, and not restrict them to a selec few. That is not a good way to conduct bisnuess, I hope they let your friend pay for her perchases insdtead of making her friend buy them. If they did that then it would have been pointless to let her into the store in the first place.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I would rather pay using my Mastercard then give the money to her, and if one has a large family, then Costco is all right, but my friend was in the same situation as I was, she had just her husband and son at home. The rest of the family had moved out and were either on their own or married. So it did not pay for us to become members of Costco since there would be no advantages. That fee does restrict Costco only to those with large families.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 Feb 08
used to do Sams Club about the same am sure its alright fo ryou to buy something there while you are there weather they have to pay for it then you pay back or ya give them the money to pay then.I never had to take a guessed for every one I knew was a member
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I heard from my friends that I cannot use my own Mastercard or Visa there because I am not a member. I can purchase stuff but I would have to give the money to my friend or give her a check so she can pay for it herself. So I guess I would not be going to Costco that often.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
16 Jul 08
that is too bad. I like to get the points on my Mastercard, so I guess I have to take out a membership to get anywhere. It does seem rather unfair though because I am spending money. I do wonder though whether the stuff is really cheaper because when you consider the cost of membership, then you have to figure that it had better be reasonable.

@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Feb 08
I don't see there is anything wrong with it if Costco is okey with it. Your story reminded me of my experience with Avon before. The company that I used to work with used to handle the logistic side of their business throughout the country. Once we were toured to their main warehouse and were told to sample their products. So what we did, we got samples of their products and was told later that it's ours compliment of them. There is nothing dishonest in it if its allowed and being a consumer, it is certainly not dishonest to get some items from where it is cheaper. I am also now employed by company that is into retail and I have an employee discount. My friends let me buy items for them using my employee discount. My company knows about it and fully allows it. Even if I buy in bulk using my discount, they are still okey with it. It is only dishonest if its being done behind their backs and that there is an explicit prohibition from the company for doing such kind of transaction.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
5 Mar 08
I have had been given samples from Avon, but getting a small tube of lipstick is different than buying a whole make up set. It is with Costco, if I go as a guest and want to get, say a whole Cd collection of five or more, and a large box of laundry soap, or a how to learn Italian Dvd set, I have to give the member the money or a check, and she will pay for the items. The only way, that I can pay for the items is to get a membership then, and then I will be able to use my Visa, Mastercard, my debit card, or write them a check.
@Grandmaof2 (7578)
• Canada
28 Feb 08
I was at Cosco with my daughter a few weeks ago actually. I am a member and so is she and I have no idea why I would have asked at that moment but I did ask a sales clerk that very question when we were paying and she told me that No we both needed to be members which we are. I was also at cosco one time with my husband, he is not a member and because I was not feeling well he paid for the items and he told the clerk where I was sitting which she could see me and I gave a little wave and there was no problem they accepted my card.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I would suppose it would be all right for your spouse to buy something even though he is not a member because the Costco sees you both as a unit. HOwever, if I am invited by a friend then I am not going to live with that friend. She has her own home, and I have mine so that makes a difference. I would have to give her the money or write her a check and have her pay the purchases for me.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
28 Feb 08
This is the way that they did it when I last went there. The first time my sister went was with me and I bought a card and gave her the extra one. Since the Costco is closer to her, she goes all the time now and I go every once in a while.
So the last time we went, my card was expired, so I bought something with her card and they said that the next time I should purchase my own card. I have not been back since then. I am just one person, so most of the time I do not need to buy thing in bulk, so I do not go there.
It would be different if they had everyday things on the website, but they only have big items. I don't know about anyone else, but I do not need a casket delivered to me.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
It is not worth it for me to get a Costco card. I do not think I would make enough purchases to justify it. If we had a large family, then it would be different, but we had only two sons, and now there is just the two of us living in the house. We tried shopping when we were first married, but I do know that there is a big selection and there are some things specifically packaged for Costco and they are cheaper than anywhere else.
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
28 Feb 08
Actually, I don't quite understand.
As long as it is not explicitly stated that you (a member) are only supposed to buy things for your own use, it is perfectly alright to buy for a friend or your 10 mil friends - so long as you are not reselling to them at a higher price to earn money for yourself, I don't see anything wrong.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I am not a member so it is if I am a guest, can I purchase the stuff using my Mastercard or should I pay my friend who is a member in cash or a check and she purchase the stuff for me. There was no intention or mention of either of us buying stuff to resell on ebay or something like that. It was whether a guest can pay Costco themselves.
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
28 Feb 08
I am a Member of Costco in British Columbia. I can invite a guest. They can assemble items to purchase, I must pay for them, and the guest must pay me back. They cannot buy things on their own, even if they pay with cash, as they ask for your member card at the "check-out."
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
29 Feb 08
Okay that seems clear to me. So in order for me to use my credit card, I have to have a membership.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Yep that's the way it is here in US at Sam's Club, they do have great prices but many of the things you have to buy in bulk (can't buy just a can of beans gotta get a whole case type).
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
29 Feb 08
And that's a good reason to take a friend with you....you can share the bulk purchases. We sorta have a "buying club" here on the Island, we phone around, see who needs what...and how we can share! It really helps!
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@chrislotz (8136)
• Canada
14 Mar 08
One of my sisters, actually two of them, are members at Costco and I usually go with my younger sister. I go as a guest, obviously, and I am allowed to buy as much as I want. There is no limit, although sometimes I wish there was, and I spend way too much when I go with her. I buy a lot of bulk items so that I don't have to buy them for awhile again and I find it is a lot cheaper this way, in the long run. I buy things like my toilet paper and laundry soap and bounce and toothpaste. Things that are more household items than food. I seldom buy food except by the cans. I don't think I have ever bought fresh food or my meats there. I pay for it myself right at the till, they just use her card for verification purposes.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
That sounds very interesting and it means I might be able to buy stuff there even if I am a guest. I suppose they allow you to do this because they know your younger sister and you have been there lots of times. I doubt it would work for me. What Costco is it?
@Foxfire1875 (2010)
•
28 Feb 08
I didn't know costco did that. I know makro does and I can't see a problem at all with that, it definitely isn't illegal in any way.
I often use my credit/debit card to pay for shopping in costco, altho it is my boyfriend who is the member, I'm sure if it wasn't legal something would have been said about it.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I guess if they see you there all the time with your boyfriend, they know that you are living in the same place or assume you are married, but I doubt if you went with yourfriend who was a Costco member, that you would have to give the money over to her and she would have to pay for it.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I figure that would be it, but there are just the two of us and my friend who was invited as a guest by someone else, just has three at home now so it does not pay for either of us to become members.
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