Cyber Crimes: How do You Protect Yourself and Family from Cyber Vulnerabilities!
By kamran12
@kamran12 (5526)
Pakistan
March 6, 2008 3:42pm CST
Internet is indeed a great revolution, providing us with handy resources to information, business and friendly communications. However, like any other field of human concern, it has its downsides too, making us vulnerable to harms.
So, my fellow mylot members, do you think that proactive approach is better than reactive? Is it really important? How do you make sure that you are safe on cyberspace? Do you know how to handle (administratively) if some malevolent person tries to harm you or your family? Have you ever had a bad experience? How did you come out of it? What happened to the perpetrator? Am I asking too many questions? Ok, I’ll stop!:-)
Do share your views, it may help someone! Thanks!
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
7 Mar 08
I am very careful when doing banking and shopping.
I never give anyone my real date for birth. Only bank can have it.
I don't give my real phone number. I am giving everybody my brring number.
I never sign with any company that ask about my social security number or my DL number.
Link to Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3):
http://www.ic3.gov/
@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
7 Mar 08
Hello Kamran,
"Every 79 seconds, a thief steals someone's identity, opens accounts in the victim's name and goes on a buying spree." -CBSnews.com, 1/25/2001"
"Identity Theft cost consumers more than 5 billion in losses in 2002."
"Understanding how the Fraudster got your identity is critical to preventing Identity Fraud and Identity Theft, the number one method of gaining information on a victim was dumpster diving. This is where a fraudster takes mail or information out of the trash about you to go and establish their identity as you. Consumer protection starts at home."
The three above quotes come from:
http://www.fraudpractice.com/Statistics.htm
I place on-line security as a very high priority.
I will not provide any data that can be linked to my true identity.
No pictures of myself, or any loved ones.
No references to my residence, to within 150 mile radius.
No mail delivered to our home. Post Office delivery only.
No real names.
No real birth dates.
No references to personal specifics that would allow anyone to link my online identity with my real identity.
I am so vigilant because I have twice been stalked. I would never wish that on anyone. So, I urge others to rein in their propensity to share details of their lives with strangers. Most of us will never meet the nameless, faceless individuals that we interact with online. They will forever remain strangers.
We must recognize that as fabulous as the internet it, it is a favorite tool of crooks, thieves, predators, and nut-jobs! It is our own responsibility to protect ourselves and our families from these criminals & thugs!
Below are a couple of eye-openning links:
1. Computer crimes research website:
http://www.crime-research.org/
2. U.S. D.O.J. computer crimes division
http://www.crime-research.org/
3. The Fraud Practice
http://www.fraudpractice.com/Statistics.htm
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
7 Mar 08
Hello ladyluna!:-)
Those are indeed startling statistics. It is very wise of you that you are quite vigilant and prudent in your ways on dicey cyberspace. Indeed, where internet comes with lots of opportunities and has made this planet a global village, its rampant horses can mutilate our privacy in a blink of an eye. So, yes, the less we share our private information, the more we can feel/be safe.
All your personal practices and suggestions are significant and relevant; I do hope people will benefit from these in their online experiences as moderate measures because otherwise the moment we open a browser, the moment we login to mylot, we are already giving up half of our privacy.
I am sorry about your experience with stalkers but I am glad that it made you learn, and to share with others so that they don’t easily fall victim in same way! Thank you for sharing, ladyluna!:-)
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
8 Mar 08
Hello ladyluna,
Thank you for the back ground and additions to your earlier post. There is guidance, help and wisdom speaking through your post. I hope folks will pay heed and will benefit from it. And, there is no harm in asking people to be vigilant for the sake of their own security and comfort!:-)
What I tried to convey briefly by saying “the moment we open a browser, the moment we login to mylot, we are already giving up half of our privacy”, and will now say it openly is that coming to mylot also make us vulnerable to harms by those in mylot team who are skilled and may like to play dirty. I have had a personal experience and I don’t think I need to share here. I have been asking folks to be least communicative even with mylot admin, especially when it comes to sharing personal information. Still, any skilled member of mylot team who may choose to harm someone can do it even without direct personal information. Many people had and may still have habit of using wrong form to contact mylot. I said it more than enough and I must stop here!:-)
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Mar 08
This is a very interesting topic, kamran! I'll have to admit that I'm probably not the most cyber-safe person in the world. I have pictures posted, and some of the people I talk to online know my real name. I've given out my phone number and/or address to quite a few close online friends over the years as well.
I do try to keep my real name off public forums, but I am pretty open about other details about my life. I guess my openness comes from the fact that while quite a few people I've met offline have caused me harm, no one I met online has yet done so. The one online "stalker" I had did nothing worse than show up at my door with flowers... he didn't do any harm even when I turned him down, though I was a bit freaked out over the whole thing.
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 08
Hello lecanis!:-)
You may not be the most cyber-safe person but the warrior-you is adequate to fend any malevolent person off (hint: It still delights me to recall the punch you landed on a bully while on date! haha). Of course, I don't mean any disrespect to you; rather it is in very positive sense!
We do tend to trust our close friends enough to share our personal details with them. I, too, have shared my personal information with many members here and I do hope for you and myself or any member for that matter that there trust is never breached! We still need to be careful!
It’s nice that nobody online has caused you any harm and I can see this fact playing a role in your online openness, I hope and wish that it remains as such! It would seem that we can call that stalker as ‘gentleman stalker’!:-) Thanks for sharing, lecanis!:-)
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
6 Mar 08
*giggles* I must admit that I put a lot of faith in my ability to protect myself, as well. My warrior self is not to be trifled with!
I do hope as well that none of my friends break my trust on such matters. Not have yet, that I know of, and I do only share information with people once I am sure that I trust them. :)
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@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 08
Kamran ji you started an important discussion. This is what most of the people are facing at on line. We should admit that every light has its dark. Every head has a tail too.Merit and demerits are a fact and reality. There are so many merits of internet but it has so many demerits. we should keep the demerits in our mind. We should make save protected our machine or system with the help of anti virus, fire wall, spy ware, there are many soft ware available in the market and could also be downloaded on line. An act also has been framed to catch such person. But there are still many shortcomings, and we hope that would be covered in just future of the speedy developing field of technology. we should take care. wish you good luck.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
7 Mar 08
Hello sheenshaukat!:-)
Yes, it is imperative that we keep in mind the disadvantages, demerits and inconveniences of internet while enjoying the great benefits it has to offer. I don't know what act you are talking about but I do hope that it works for betterment. Thanks for sharing your views, sheenshaukat!:-)
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