… if this is merely just remembering him or I am not yet over him?

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As I recall a quote, which said that, if you don’t have love at the palm of your hand it doesn’t matter what else you got. I think it will be harder for you to appreciate the things that you have if you are missing an important piece, to love and be loved in return. Losing the one that you love would sometimes mean wanting not to move on. And the question that only lingers is “How will I live? Or How will I move on?” for most of us define the person we love as our sole purpose for living. Yes, someone that important walked out of my life not so long ago. All I knew is that I loved him- I made some sacrifices even if I clearly understand that we should not go on traveling that road and yet I made the rough road smoother, not perfectly smooth, but I happened to make it comfortable for the two of us. I made him my world,and I was happy that somehow he returned my love on ways that made me happy, really, really happy. Now I am nervous if this is merely just remembering him or I am not yet over with him? So when can you say that you are truly over a person? When is the time when you can stand inhaling the smell of his skin or the scent of his perfume without feeling any sensation from within? Is it at the point when you will be asked “Do you still love him?” and you startled because you don’t know what to say? It’s as if your having a hard time generating the words that describe how you feel about him, when once, you can whole- heartedly answer, “Yes, I do!” and even remind him about your love from time to time. Is it at the point when you can’t make any sacrifices for him anymore? Or is it at the point when you remember making love with him, and yet you're thinking of someone else?