U love ur father or mother?
By atifshahzad1
@atifshahzad1 (632)
Pakistan
March 15, 2008 12:17pm CST
Parentrs are the great blessings of God and we are so fortune that we have them. Father and mother both ahve their improtance and we love the both. but i think most of the children love their mother more than their father. wat do u think of it?
Muhammad Atif
atifshahzad1@yahoo.com
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5 responses
@madlees (1377)
• India
19 Mar 08
Dear atifshazad,
What you say is right , that kids seem to be attached more to mother than their fathers. The reason mothers spend more time for them, be with them and understand them. She is the best one can find. Not even GOD can replace mother. But Father is one who is there for us behind mother. Unless he helps her out she cannot do anything by herself.
I am a mother and a daughter too. I can understand what you say. For the first years when you are growing up you/'ll see more of your mother . That too in many families fathers are very strict, will not get emotional like mothers.. They think only the good things for you. That you'll understand only when you yourself become a father. You'll understand your father better then. Both are alike. One cannot replace the other, Father and mother have their own ways of doing things. All the best.
@atifshahzad1 (632)
• Pakistan
19 Mar 08
yes kids seem to attatvch more with mothe and it is not because that they spend lot of time with her kids but because she takes care of her kids and also take side of her kids when ever they are wrong adn so they are more atteracted to the mother.

@atifshahzad1 (632)
• Pakistan
20 Apr 08
Thanks a lot and best luck to both ur mother and father. thanks a lot for ur response here at my discussion.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
well of course, i choose my mother. need i say more??? as you all know, most of my life, i have no father... he was there the first 12 years, and has gone to some place else after that and i have not seen him since then. he was really irresponsible and he doesnt deserve a bit of my respect nor love.
@jhoannejoj (963)
• Philippines
15 Mar 08
Hi.. I love both of them equally. Though I am much more closer with my mom, that doesnt make me love less my dad. Both plays significant role in my life. I am who I am today because of them. They both instilled good values and raised me as a good Christian.
My mom is like my bestfriend. I can tell her things that women only could understand. On the other hand, my dad is my protector. Everytime I have a problem he's at my side to get through everything in an easy way.
@atifshahzad1 (632)
• Pakistan
18 Mar 08
yes u are right and u have both and they locve u and care u then u have also the same to them. Thanks a lot for ur nice response dear.
@katbalu102 (377)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
hello atifshahzad1,
i feel that i disagree with your comment, i have observed with most of my friends that when it comes to girls they are daddys little girl and when it comes to boys they are attached to their mother. but for me, i love both the same way because both my parents have different personalities. my father is a bit strict and a bit closed minded on things like sleeping over at a friends house, going on a road trip with friends for a few days, drinking, smoking and etc. although my mother and i dont have a very good communication right now due to an incident in the past she is still my mother and she is blood. she is also against smoking and drinking she is however open to the idea that her children can go to parties and come home late as long as you come home not hurt, to sleeping over at a friends house and going on road trips. choosing who your affection is really partial to with parents really depends on the time they spend with you, how you interact with them and etc. thats what i think anyway
@atifshahzad1 (632)
• Pakistan
20 Apr 08
thanks a lot and i think u want to live freely as u want and u dont like any restriction. and herein paksitna parents can forbid their child from going or doign any thing and we doint mind it beacase it is their duty to show us right and wrong. thanks a lot for ur ncie response here.




