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Have you ever said "I Love you" and not meant it? email this discussion to a friend?

banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships2 years ago

I did. But that was many years ago.. and I was young.. and just wanted something*cough* to happen. Oh, well. Those were the days. How about you?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. my_january (484)   ranked 1,213 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

I guess I did. And for the same reason like yours, it was because I was young and is prone to saying things even if I don't mean what I said. Yes those were the days. But now, I love you is one of the words I value in my life. I say it only when I mean it, or else it loses it's value and sincerity. We should only tell it if we really feel telling it and if the person deserves to hear it from us. We should express love the best way we can- words our powerful, so when we say it- it can mean so much more to someone else. blush


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Maybe that's how it really is... or should be. Maybe that's how we can say we matured...

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. wnbwnbwnb (333)   ranked 713 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

Actually,I did too.Sometimes you just need to say it to get what you want! quite embarrassing to say so!


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Ahh yes. But during that time it WAS the right decision. Right?:)

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. alexigne (648)   ranked 2,002 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

Yes...


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Thanks for the reply. Seeing that you're female, then can we conclude that females do lie about these things too? Intriguing... We probably can deduce the reason why guys do it, but I'm not knowledgeable as to why girls do it too. Hmmm...


myLot reputation of 83/100. alexigne (648)   ranked 2,002 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

is it related to the question or just wrong send

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. blush_blush (280)   ranked 4,716 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

Yeah I did not minding what it really is. I actually think that its just a way of showing your affection. Saying I love you was equal to "I like you". When I was a kid. Now, that I can assess what love is really is. I only tell it to the persons who I really love. Sometimes, I have no courage to tell the person that I love him/her. Actions speaks louder than words, I guess.


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Yes. That's how I remembered it was for me too. It was less for love than like as I remember it. With regards to actions speaking louder than words, well, it is quite better to let the person feel your love than just saying it, right? Maybe this is something we develop as we mature. Thanks for the reply.:)

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. dolce_vita78 (4513)   ranked 688 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

I think I did when I was younger. But not when I grew older and more matured. I don't find it fair to me as well as the other party for me to say "I love you" without meaning it. Inasmuch as I do not want other telling me they love me without sincerity, I do not want to do that either.


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Another female who did the same. Hmmm. Quite intriguing. Thanks for the reply!:)

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. maddysmommy (10990)   ranked 661 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

I bet lots of people would be "coughing" too LOL well maybe not lots haha!
When I saythose words I have always meant it.


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Then your partners were lucky. If your present partner is not your first bf, then that makes your past ones included in the lucky category. Lucky them... and good for you!;)

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7. myLot reputation of 84/100. artguy (906)   ranked 19,056 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

I think everyone has said i love you and not meant it at one time or another. Someone says it to you and then you feel obligated to say it back even though you may not feel that way.


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Ohohoho! That actually happened to me too. Obliged! He's right people. Nobody even thought about caring for li'l 'ol us before.. the emotional throes... the pain for lying... haha! Sorry I digress. It may be that I really just did not want to hurt some people then. Oh well. BTW, thanks for the reply man!

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4422)   ranked 473 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

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banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

I guess no one would be proud to have lied to people or actually have played people before (though those lies may have led to... this and that*cough cough chokeee*). It's just fun to remember the past. As well, it is actually useful in its own little way. Because like what you said, you can get to improve on things that you knew were not right. Yup, I guess that's the way we should all go anyway. Maturity sets in and bites us in the butt when we least expect it.:D

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9. myLot reputation of 83/100. giftsandbagscom (12032)   ranked 876 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

Never in my entire life has this happened. I am very very hard on using this word. I truly feel it is not to be tossed around so freely. As most people don't know what the word really means. I am happy to say no to this. When I ever said it I really meant it. I can't count on two hands how many people I told this. Most were my blood family.


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

Well, though I admit that I did say the words 'I love you' quite loosely before, I'm happy to say that it no longer applies today. Anyway, I admire your conviction for the truth, more because it is similar to my conviction about saying sorry - whether I'm the one saying it or am receiving it - I always make it a point that it is said with the truth behind it. It's still a good world out there with people like you, I guess. Thanks for the reply!:)

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10. myLot reputation of 83/100. alexigne (648)   ranked 2,002 out of 23,188 in relationships   2 years ago

even though when i get mature. i do so.. sometimes you need to do a white lie to satisfy them and not to hurt their feelings but it i've found out that it will lead you to hurt them more and deeper too..


banerowe (46)   ranked 3,050 out of 23,188 in relationships  2 years ago

I see. So females do them too to avoid hurting the other party. Oh, but then your second statement is right. Lies will lead to hurting eventually. That's something I learned along the way too. But on the good side, it prompted me to change, so I just take it as one of life's pearls.

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