When is it serious?

I was with my husband for 2 years then got engaged for 3 1/2 years then got married. I knew it was serious when he proposed. So, I'd have to say about 2 years to know it's very serious.

I guess it all depends on how your relationship starts out. Sometimes in the beginning, you both don't feel so committed with each other, but eventually become really close and attached to one another. Then you know it's serious. Sometimes it's serious right from the start.

There is no serious timepoint. It's completely different for every couple. Some may be serious from the beginning, some may never become serious. And you know when you talk about it and decide to be serious. You HAVE to communicate and decide these things together. They don't just "happen", you have to agree on them and make them happen.

I am not sure a time can be put on this. I a with my guy almost three months. I feel comfortable and all with him. I am still learning about him as he is about me. To say I am serious about him would be a lie or me being in denial.. I am hoping this one is the last one for me. I am that compatible with him. But no one can say for sure.