sign in • sign up
web   discussions   tasks   blogs   photos

Some support for giving up alcohol please!!  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed! 4 years ago

I realise at the weekend that since i started drinking alcohol 28 years ago, i have never went more than a week without getting drunk!

this scared me, but not as much as my Liver who sent me a begging letter....

"Dear axle

can you please give me and my cousin the Kidneys a break from alcohol.

30 days would be lovely.

yours sincerely

Lionel Liver & Kenny Kidney."



I am now on day 4 and feeling the pressure already! lol!

i do not expect to last the 30 days (especially as my wife is coming up to her time of the month!) but i can look back to giving up smoking. i did not put pressure on myself and now i am 1 year this month without a cigerette.

does anyone have any tips to stay of the drink?

thanks in advance.


Oh deer! this is a toughy!!
 

no alcohol allowed!
sponsors
Addiction Recovery
Overwhelmed? Get Help Finding the Right Rehab Center. Call Today!
RehabHelp.com/AddictionRecovery

Addiction Help
Do You or Someone You Love Have a Drug Problem? 877-549-2072.
StopYourAddiction.com/AddictionHelp

Medical Detox Treatment
Do You or Someone You Love Have a Drug Problem? We Can Help!
MedicalDetox.org/AddictionHelp

MSV1313 (2239) response was accepted on 4/4/2008.
denotes best response, click it to go to the best response.
tags:  alcohol, addiction, drink, 12step program, aa
 
1. myLot reputation of 82/100. rintintin (2348)   4 years ago

Well,I was an alkie,and I suppose I always will be,but I havent touched any booze in 6 years.
I found the best thing to take the edge off was simply to smoke more pot.
My liver and kidneys are great now,my pish is clear,a lot clearer than the tap water.
I used to have so much sugar in my water with drinking so much booze,that when I ran out of milk I would simply piss in my cornflakes.
I have much more pennies to spend now,and I noticed after the first week booze free,I had saved 100 quids.More to spend on pot.
Its great to being sober all the time,I havent sh1t myself in years now either.
Nor have I urinated in the corner of a room,shouted abuse at passing policemen,or picked fights with unsuspecting night club revellers.


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

lol! great pointers regarding the lack of shitting yersel'!

i must spend approx £60 a week on booze. sadly my pot smoking days went out the window when i married! ( i would love to put some in her yougart and watch the result!)

life seems better for you without the booze. not sure if i have the strength of character to resist! this weekend will tell!


myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10631)   ranked 3 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

I'm proud of you RTT for having 6 yrs no drinking!! Congrats. I sure wish they would legalize pot as there is no harm in smoking pot. In fact my grandpa, Bless his Heart survived an extra 12 years with cancer due entirely to smoking pot. He was able to keep food down after smoking a fattie, so I'm all for pot legalization...Lori


myLot reputation of 82/100. rintintin (2348)  4 years ago

axle,take a score,and make 12 little fairy cakes,then feed her with them.We made some 2 weeks ago,wow,they were even better than the ones I brought back from Amsterdam.
One cake and she will be a different person.

Lori,6 years,never felt better.Its great going to work only stoned and not drunk!!!
I keep my food down ok to,its great,
Yes,I think I will live longer to as a result of pot smoking

Addiction Recovery Overwhelmed? Get Help Finding the Right Rehab Center. Call Today!  RehabHelp.com/AddictionRecovery
 
2. myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (10631)   ranked 3 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!   4 years ago

Congrats on the smokes!! Thats a huge feat to have undertaken!! Now about the drink, I'm going thru this with my brother now & encouraging him 1 day at a time, sometimes it's even 1 hour at a time, so far so good 3 days no drinking, & he's an every day drunk too. He's now at the point where he's getting sick, so I'm in this for the long haul. I hope & pray you can also stay away from the drink....Lori


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

i guess i do not quite have the same issues as your brother. i hope you have luck and good fortune with your brother. he is lucky to have you supporting him.

best of luck dumblnddzzy, you are a true saint.

Addiction Help Do You or Someone You Love Have a Drug Problem? 877-549-2072.  StopYourAddiction.com/AddictionHelp
 
3. myLot reputation of 76/100. bbsr13 (4139)   ranked 5 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!   4 years ago

Hello,axle! Some twenty years back you had started consuming alcohol and soon after the alcohol started consuming you.so long you drink with limited quantity it may be beneficial to the health but excess is bad.so your liver and kidney have given you the ultimatum to quit or alternatively you suffer.you also rightly opted to quit but don't long for even a peg.if continued this process for a month you will achieve success as you did in case of cigarette.thank you.all the best.


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

i would not like to quit intirely. as you say , in moderation it may be benefitial. and i do like a red wine!

i would be happy to lasy 30 days, but i doubt if i will! lol!

Medical Detox Treatment Do You or Someone You Love Have a Drug Problem? We Can Help!  MedicalDetox.org/AddictionHelp
 
4. myLot reputation of 82/100. cheesehater (1222)   4 years ago

First, put all the guns away, bring them to a friends home if you don't trust yourself. That way, when the time of month appears, you won't be tempted.
Pour yourself a drink and think about ways to stop.
Wait, lets try that again.
Take up driving, go on short drives every time you want to drink. Don't drive to the pub. Drive around until you don't feel the need anylonger. If you feel the need and its stronger than you expect, purchase some cheap American beer. It tastes like crap and the alcohol content is far below that of what a good beer should contain. If you like wine, buy grape juice instead, but if you drink too much of that be prepared for the unwanted consequences in the rest room. Do not let the juice ferment before you drink it, you'll be sorry, hammered and possibly hospitalized, but sorry.
I think that you'll just need to lean on yourself and those that are close to you. If you ask them for support, you may be surprised when they are willing to happily give it to you.
I wish you luck. I practiced many years to be a drunk, but I just wasn't very good at it. I like to drink, but I've found that I don't love to drink. I wish you well in your quest and if I can help you in any way, I'd be more than happy to.


myLot reputation of 82/100. cheesehater (1222)  4 years ago

Plus, if you have been clean for a year on the cancer candies, you should use that as incentive to remind yourself that you are capable of being successful in a task that involves willpower.
I trust you will do just fine.


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

lol! great opening gambit!

i do like the driving option. good idea. i love photography so i could combine it with the driving and lighter evenings.

and lastly, so right about american beers! pishwater!!

Becks, Pils, Groulsh to name but a few european beers with a good hoppy, malty taste!

Addiction Treatment Many Approaches to Alcohol & Drug Rehab. Insurance & Financing OK.  TheDrugRehab.com/AddictionTreatment
 
5. myLot reputation of 71/100. kamran12 (1808)   4 years ago

Hello axle_shockhits!:-)

I don't have any great advice to offer, I have never experienced it, and I would congratulate you for leaving cigarettes.

I just wish, and pray, for you that you may get out of it successfully especially when it may help let your loving and beloved daughter to see you healthy for a long time to come. I believe that she would love to know that you left it for her sake! I wish you best of luck and a very healthy happy life!:-)


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

it was for her i quit smoking. i think it is for my fat waistline that i am giving up drink for 30 days!


myLot reputation of 71/100. kamran12 (1808)  4 years ago

She is lucky, axle, and I would wish her more luck in future!

Drug Addiction Treatment Get the Facts. Get Straight. Get the Help That You Need.  gulfcoastrecovery.org
 
6. myLot reputation of 94/100. Goodie123 (7548)   4 years ago

Well if the letter Lionel and Kenny sent you,
Does not do the trick, nothing will.
I really feel you should take Lionel and Kenny's advice, it is the best advice anyone can give you.
My advice is be strong, do not have a drink for 30 days.
You will feel so much better.


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

mylot sober? i do not have my answers quite so ready! this weekend will be the big tester!

Discounted Breathalyzers as low as $45.00 each. Free Shipping  www.americanscreeningcorp.com
 
7. myLot reputation of 58/100. tessah (3120)   4 years ago

having never been dependant on the numbness it lends, i cannot fully empathize with your situation. but i do offer my support in yer endeavor and wish you all the luck and strength you need to succeed. if it helps any, do not look at 30 days.. look at JUST today.. and tommorow, again.. look at JUST the day. and if the urge and want starts to overwelm.. focus on JUST that hour, search for something to release it. work out, go someplace and scream at the top of your lungs.. whatever, find yer own. the moment WILL pass, and you will still be on the right track! best of luck to you thumbup


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

yeah, i agree totally. that's what i did with the ciggies.

just thinking about it makes me want a cold beer! lol!

Local Coupons 1 ridiculously huge coupon a day. Save 50-90% on your city's best!  www.Groupon.com
 
8. myLot reputation of 90/100. olivemai (2765)   4 years ago

I see that you still have your sense of humor! There are many ways to stay sober. The best way is through a support group. Have you heard of alcoholics anonymous? There is even an online forum so you can get support without leaving your home! I think nutrition plays a big role, as you may desire something sweet to make up for the lack of alcohol in your system. Keep a diary, or blog, so you can keep track of your feelings and thoughts. This will help you to notice any patterns that you have developed! Make sure that you do not have any resentments, and if you do, try to forgive others and work it out so you do not fall because of bad feelings! A therapist can do wonders with this and other mental health issues that you may notice! It does come back to that PAC, parent adult child, that is a part of us everyday! So the child in you demands a drink, but the parent in you must tell that child to hush! You do not want or need a drink! The adult in you must take all three of yourself out for a walk, exercise and eat good healthy food that will minimize your cravings!


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

great advice you have given. i like the PAC. nice analogy.

many thanks.


myLot reputation of 90/100. olivemai (2765)  4 years ago

I hope it helps! I did forget to say take it one day at a time, like the other person said, even one hour, one minute at a time!

CPR Savers & First Aid Fight infection with Isopropyl alcohol. Low prices guaranteed.  Alcohol.CPR-Savers.com/
 
9. myLot reputation of 92/100. Samanthavv (827)   4 years ago

It's great that you're giving up drinking! Drinking can be so detrimental to the body. I don't think people shouldn't ever drink, but if you get to the point that you're past "in moderation" then it's best you just stop all together!


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

30 days will do!!!lol!

maybe after 30 days of detox i will not want another drink!

or maybe i will celebrate with a glass of red wine. lol!

Addiction Recovery Guide Your Internet guide to drug and alcohol addiction recovery.  addictionrecoveryguide.com
 
10. myLot reputation of 83/100. skinnychick (3313)   ranked 2 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!   4 years ago

Let me know if you find any...I don't drink often but I do find that I have a glass of wine or a beer about twice a week without even thinking about it. Almost like having a soda, it's a little scary but I limit it to 1 glass and don't get piss drunk that often.


myLot reputation of 97/100. axle_shockhits (211)   ranked 1 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

i was the same but got piss drunk! lol!

im on day 6 and gaggin' for a swalla!


myLot reputation of 83/100. skinnychick (3313)   ranked 2 out of 6 in no alcohol allowed!  4 years ago

I'll have one or two for you tonight! Hang in there, my dear!

--> Open .AA Files If Your PC Can't Open .AA Files You Need To Download This Fix.  Update.NewestDriver.com/.AA
 
sponsors
Addiction Treatment
Many Approaches to Alcohol& Drug Rehab. Insurance& Financing OK.
TheDrugRehab.com/AddictionTreatment

Drug Addiction Treatment
Get the Facts. Get Straight. Get the Help That You Need.
gulfcoastrecovery.org

Discounted Breathalyzers
as low as $45.00 each. Free Shipping
www.americanscreeningcorp.com

similar discussions
durian vs alcohol
i've read in some blog that if you eat durian then drink alcohol will cause death. Is this...
how do u feel after having 23 bottles of beer?
friend don't no may be u feel alike as one of my friend feel after he has drank up to like 23bottle...
Do you get drunk to find the courage to speak out?
I remember a friend before who came to my house with roses and reveal his feelings for me. Told me...
What is better? drink beer on an empty stomach or a full stomach.
Just want to ask which is better, to drink beer on an empty or a full one? Some people say that...
do you think alcohol is bad
well i think that alcohol is probably the worst drug out there becuase off all the damages it does...
alcoholic beverages
i used to drink alcoholic beverages before. And there was a time that i got a hangover due to...
Should i avoid this..
Drinking alcohol is normally for sociability i think, however should i avoid this? Free of alcohol,
I have never drank beer but many people enjoy it.. How would you describe it?
I see so many people buying beer. The very smell of it appalls me. How would you describe...
Do you drink Alcohol?
I remember when I was younger and use to go out to a bar, I never would drink much at all...during...
What if a prohibition of alcoholic drinks imposed
and enforced it by a lethal injection? We all know that alcohol is the first step to most crimes...
sponsors
Addiction Treatment
Many Approaches to Alcohol & Drug Rehab. Insurance & Financing OK.
TheDrugRehab.com/AddictionTreatment
Drug Addiction Treatment
Get the Facts. Get Straight. Get the Help That You Need.
gulfcoastrecovery.org
Discounted Breathalyzers
as low as $45.00 each. Free Shipping
www.americanscreeningcorp.com
Local Coupons
1 ridiculously huge coupon a day. Save 50-90% on your city's best!
www.Groupon.com
CPR Savers & First Aid
Fight infection with Isopropyl alcohol. Low prices guaranteed.
Alcohol.CPR-Savers.com/
Addiction Recovery Guide
Your Internet guide to drug and alcohol addiction recovery.
addictionrecoveryguide.com
--> Open .AA Files
If Your PC Can't Open .AA Files You Need To Download This Fix.
Update.NewestDriver.com/.AA
return to mylot
We are loading a word from our sponsors. No thanks, cancel loading.