When is flirting taken too far?

I don't think anyone can help flirting with other people, regardless if they're in a relationship. I do think, however, that flirting does have a limit and there are boundaries. It sounds like your the jealous type, and in that case you can certainly feel like flirting is never okay. I think anything voluntary, pinching the backside for example, is a little overboard. The "arm touch" however, is not a voluntary action and can't be helped. Try to reassess what you are looking at, is she flirting on purpose or is it just her natural reaction to people?

ya i with u on tht, i dont think tht u g/f should be flirting with exes, it like saying to them i still like u and i would date u if i could.

HAHA, that's true. Well I think that it's not ok for anyone to flirt, girl or guy, especially if it is an EX. I'm sure almost everyone cares if there other is flirting unless they don't care about the relationship and if you don't care, you shouldn't even be with them..

Hi ASantana,

Yep, just like Codeyjs says!

You shouldn't even be with em, if your gonna flirt with someone else.

That's my story, and I'm stickin to it!

Have a good one! Marilyn

You should talk with her and arrange some rules because you can miss her. You cant never know what may happens.

I wouldn't tell her not to TALK to tem, but I'd nix the flirting.

I am married, but I do know when a nice looking guy walks by. Just because I'm chained to the porch doesn't mean I can't bark (a little dog humour from my step-dad).

I will walk into the coffee shop, full of people who are all PLAONIC FRIENDS and say someting to the uys like "it's nice to sit here on my rear in this comfortable chair, while nice looking guys like you serve me coffee" but that's about as far as it goes. My husband doe the same with the lady at the gas station. LOL

when the person tht ur flirting with is getting uncomfortable with wht ur say or doing. personaly i think tht is not ok for ur partner to flirt with any past partner cuz thts creating the idea tht there might be something still there. i know tht there are people who flirt and dont even realize tht there doing it, and in tht case its ok, as long as u tell them tht there doing it. i've had one of my ex tell me tht i was flirting with some one, but i didnt know and when she told me this i told her tht i wasnt try to, it just seems tht way cuz of my personality.