husband/wife oevr the inetrnet!!

I meet my ex - partner via the internet. I wasn't in any dating service or anything like that, we just meet in chat rooms and things went from there really. I personally would not sign up to a dating agency to find a prosepective partner as I feel it gives off the wrong signals, ie desperate and that you are an easy touch. Love will come when you least expect it and there is no need to hurry things on.

Yes, the part of love that is established as FRIENDSHIP, TRUST, and RESPECT, and it is even possible for the element of LUST to develop. But should you think that is the end all be all? Never! You must meet and get to know each other in person for at least 2 + months before you can make a good judgement, if anyone lied about important things, and are you two compatible in REAL life. BEFORE you meet in real life, DO A BACKGROUND CHECK!!! If you refuse, and deny the possiblity that some pervert masquerading as a nice guy is suckering you, then you are totally niaeve. A man who has nothing to hide, will give you his name and SSN for you to check him out. If a man gets more than miffed as in totally outraged you're wanting to check on him, then he's and idiot and has no respect for your good sense to protect yourself. ALWAYS DO THE CHECK before the meeting.

while i have heard this works ok, most people i know have only had problems trying to meet someone over the net...one canadian friend married an american and no country will let the other one in! he now lives in the us and she is still here in canada...sheesh!

I definitely do not think its worth the risk. Over the internet a person could tell you anything, and you don't really have the chance to know the person, you don't get to guage their reactions, or feel them out to see if they are sincere when you are just talking over the net. Also, you don't really know if the person you are talking to is who they say they are. They could use any picture, any name, and tell you anything. So you are falling in love with an image, not an actual person. I know that people have stated they met their loved one over the internet, and they are doing great. But I tend to believe they are the exception, not the rule. I feel like if I were to do something like that, it'd be just my luck I hook up with some psycho or something.

very interesting topic at the same time can be interesting too. I am single myself and i have tried to use the internet to find a good friend ro a life partner howver i have been a bit unlucky with it. You genuinely do not know whether the person is honest or not, and if he is not from the same country the chats start fizzling out after some time. Not that it is a bad way to make friends but you have to def be a bit careful as to which site you enter.I do also feel your search is very important to start talking to people who are easily acceble on the phone or in person

Well.I think if we can find a husband or wife over the internet.i am sure that there's also someone want to find their true loves.They will chat with you by heart.