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taiguodaomi (1)   ranked 15 out of 22 in fall in love5 months ago

This must sound stupid,especially when it's from a 22-year-old grown woman,but it's really hard for me to tell whether I'm in love with someone or not.
I meet good guys from time to time.Sometimes I would feel extremely attracted to them.I would think about them all the time,try to interpret what they say, what they do,knowing I'm most probably indulging in my own fantacy.I guess that's when I should try to get to know the guy,and develop a relationship?But I never did,cuz I'm convinced that I'd be disappointed.
And then I met this new guy from work.I don't have that kind of feelings for him;there's no such moment as I feel like my heart skips a beat or something;I don't really miss him when he's not around.We do hang out a lot though.He He usually pays for me when we are eating out.I wouldn't say we're dating cuz he never said anything and I don't really see him that way,but everybody else says we are.And I feel quite comfortable with him.There's no need to disguise;he's OK with me occasionally looking disgraceful and surprisingly I'm OK with it too.I figure since most couples will be that way eventually,why not start now?Why all the trouble?Plus I'm sure I do like him.
But when I think about it,something just doesn't feel right here.So could anyone kindly tell me in what way I should think about it?
And please excuse my terrible English.I'm really bad at it.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. ragirg (531)   ranked 8 out of 22 in fall in love   5 months ago

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone.... You know you love someone when you cannot put into words how they make you feel..


taiguodaomi (1)   ranked 15 out of 22 in fall in love  5 months ago

I'm not sure I quite understnd that,but thank you so much for your advice~

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. chiyosan (7907)   ranked 6 out of 22 in fall in love   5 months ago

if you feel you like this person, then feel free to start a relationship with him. get to know him more when you are together. i have to say that sometimes people puts their best foot forward when he is trying to win you. so be careful and read signs. do not be blinded and keep your eyes open all throughout.

your feelings for him will be developed and grow into a mature love, more than the kind of feeling you have right now.

i say, goodluck to you and godbless


taiguodaomi (1)   ranked 15 out of 22 in fall in love  5 months ago

Thanks a lot.It really helps.I kinda felt what you told me,but I just need someone to tell me what I thought is not wrong.Haha,thanks~

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. mEisky (524)   1 month ago

Love occurs unexpectedly..We never know when,we never know how.But one thing for sure is we could FEEL it..i know its hard to say you're inloved but there's so many ways that someday you'll finally realized how deep you're already fallen..Well,you could tell it yourself if you really do coz it's you who actually feeling it..But for me,i could feel whenever love strikes me..Its when i cant almost sleep without thinking bout him first even if i close my eyes..I cant stop caring at him,asking if he's really fine..I cant go on a day if i still dont see him..So no worries!dear,you're inloved.!:D best of luck..

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. harsha04 (646)   1 month ago

No it is not stupid.how come you know that?love makes oneself to be feel lonely,no sleep,no food,no pleasures except to think about our lover.These are the various sickness could arrive when we come across love and i had this when i started and could you tell me in details if it is known still very briefly.

 
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