If your ex died tomorrow?

There is one ex in particular that I would not care at all if he died. He is a very selfish person, a horrible father, and quite honestly a burden on just about everyone he has ever met.

My ex and I had a HUGE falling out and 2 months later he killed himself...Of course I cared..we were together for many yrs, he is the father of my two older children and regardless of our major blowout I loved him very much and we were friends...

Another ex of mine died that same yr a few months later...I only found out last Jan though and I was absolutely DEVASTATED!

As for any other ex's...well I would care if they died, when they die..they all are ppl that had a part in my life ya know...the only one I might not have TOO MUCH remorse over is the one that was abusive..all the others though I'd be quite upset about..

I guess it really depends on who the ex is. I have a couple of exes that I still keep up with and I would definitely go to their funerals. I still consider them really good friends. I think for the others I wouldn't go because I probably wouldn't know. I don't have any old grudges, I usually don't hold grudges for too long. I probably wouldn't get in touch with any of their families though, I've never been really close to a boyfriend's family (maybe that's why it never lasted).

If my EX died tomorrow, I'd shed a few crocodile tears and then I'd dance on his grave! I don't hate him per se, but he did something so totally unforgiveable to our son that I know he's going to h*ll, so dancing on his grave will be appropriate.

I would have to go to the funeral, but only because I have his children, and they deserve to go. I am still cool with the family, but I probably wouldn't have stayed around that long afterwards. I have no hard feelings for my ex, the fact is, I have very little feelings for him at all either way.

If I will knew his/her situation I would still go eventhough he/she is already at my past relationship we still do have a moments of life although it would be in sad moments and happy thoughts......

I would depend on which ex. If it was one, I would be completely devastated. We are very close and he's practically my best friend. The other...I would have a hard time not celebrating. I would not have any interest in going to his funeral or saying anying any words of comfort to his family.

my ex was extremely violent and beat me and my sons on a regular basis, so once i left him i forgot all about him and we never saw him again...his mother, who couldn't stand me called me to tell me he'd died in December 07 and when i didn't react like she expected me to i was called fit to burn....i didn't care about him or the rest of his family...they were all bad to me thoughout my marriage and not one of them tried to stop the violence or help me, they ignored it and said i was attention seeking and that he would never hurt a fly, so why should i care about them or him? i left him over 19 years ago and not once did he try and contact his kids, he was too drugged up to care about them....so my answer is no i won't miss him and i didn't go to his funeral...i did infact tell his mother never to contact me again if there's another death in her family...that's her stuff, not mine....

yes i surely would .i think that what happened with my ex
was past and not not going to her funeral wouls be a shame.
also if i really loved her then there should not be any concern to go and meet her.