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myLot reputation of 86/100. warrenbrown (113)5 months ago

Do you know the traits of a good husband?
A friend, a lover,a man around the house and a person who cares for his family.
What are the traits of a good husband in your opinion?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 86/100. stacyv81 (2243)   ranked 25 out of 351 in husband   5 months ago

I think a good husband does everything he can to be sure his family is taken care of emotionally, physically, financially, and mentally. He is supportive, compassionate, honest, caring, loving, etc.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. book1962 (9501)   ranked 19 out of 351 in husband   5 months ago

hi warren thats an interesting question.
Its allright when a husband makes the major decisions in the household but he should have listened to his wifes ideas before deciding and really think about what she said. Wives are not dumb.
A good husband tells his wife when things go wrong for him so she does not have to guess and feel alarmed because he only says there is nothing wrong treating his own wife like an idiot, when in fact there is. Doing so btw is a lie. And thats no good.
A good husband is interested in helping his wife when she admits she needs his help (I think of help around the house right now). He does not say then thats womens work and what are you doing all day long. Even the best wife has a bad day or is sick once in a while. And when he helps her willingly when she needs it,and admits it he can be sure that she will not pretend she needs help when she could well manage alone and has a good powerful day herself tackling her responsibilities allright.

A good husband is also a good father and knows and is interested in what his kids do and how they are in general. He cares about his kids and wants to hear about their day too.

may seem a bit much but I guess it would be worth it because then the marriage will be happy and successful.


myLot reputation of 97/100. book1962 (9501)   ranked 19 out of 351 in husband  5 months ago

I was distracted a bit right now, sorry and forgot the rest what I wanted to say.

A good husband is not necessarily one who earns all the cash and earns lots of it. If lets say he is disabled and cant provide the financial means that does not make him a lousy husband.
In this case he can become the best homemaker there is, taking these things off his wifes shoulders as then most of the time she will be the one working outside of the home and bringing home the needed cash. And in then taking care of his share of "work" he will honour his wife for being the one who provides the financial means instead of sitting on his buttocks at home and thinking my wife can do that womens task housework when she comes from earning money.

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