How do u treat someone u really don't like?  |
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 I'm an easygoing person, I have lots of friends. But there are also people around me that I don't really like. Some are hypocritical, some are completely faults-finders, and some always bully others, etc. I'm really sick of that sort of things, I feel suffered. I really don't know how to deal with them. They all looked normal but are really freaky inside!@@!
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1.  spoiled311 (2617) | 4 months ago |  oh that i am having difficulty with. especially that the person i don't like goes to the same church with me. i don't want to be a hypocrite, but there are really people that i cannot seem to like. then i realize, i can't like them because i can't accept them. i can't accept their uniqueness from myself.
so what i did is to first change my perspective and mindset about them. then i try to control my feelings especially if they are around. then eventually, i forced myself to be friendly to them, just so i can build the habit and to also discipline myself.
eventually, i got better. we really have to decide to like a person. if we won't make the decision, nothing will happen.
but honestly, up until now i have difficulty, especially if they show behaviors i don't like. but i always try to keep myselfin check.
good day!:-)
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | I'd say you are a so kind-hearted person. Once I tried to find the problems of myself, too. But again and again I found myself sick and tired..and then decided to necklect those annoying people.. | |
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| 2. se7enthbird (827) | 4 months ago |  cold shoulders. i dont have a lot of friends. and when i dont like a person i show it. maybe that is bad but that is what i am. i make sure i dont go to places where i can see them or i just go another way if i see them coming. if my wife has a visitor i dont like i just go inside our room.
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | Oh that's cool~ | |
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| 3. Naomi17 (568) | 4 months ago |  I admit i try to avoid people i don't like! When i do meet them i am polite but find an excuse to leave.
Its a bit like going on a bus i always get a weirdo sit next to me but at least i can get of at my stop without feeling guily.
Bullies i can't stand and avoid them like the plague!
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | That's a good point. We should not be affected by those people or feel unhappy about them. | |
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4.  kennyrose (502) | 4 months ago |  well, who can say... the best that you can do is be yourself and a good ex sample. When you run into them you don't like,be polite,say hello and go your way,don't hang out with them any longer then you need to.If I don't like a person I'm polite and go my way soon as I have an open door.
Dreamkatcher
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | Thankyou for ur advice~ that's a quite reasonable way to get the problem solved. | |
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5.  wickedangel (1388) | 4 months ago |  If I see someone bullying someone else then I tend to try and stand up for the person being bullied. I don't like to see that. If they are hypocritical then I ignore them, same with fault finders - they are not so perfect themselves! I certainly wouldn't have them amongst my friends.
Thanks for sharing this with us.
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | True. No one can be perfect, but there are someone u'll treat as goodfriends. | |
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| 6. BYOLA2871 (1277) | 4 months ago |  I agree that you canyt like everybody and even if you try some of these people will still piss you off,what i normally do is to avoid any kind of arguement that will make me say things i should not say,if its to a person i dont really fancy and i also try to avoid serious or prolong tiem with such people,besides when its not avoidable to do that i simply tolerate and remain cool making sure i dont say so much
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | Luckily there are more people we like than we don't like.:) | |
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| BYOLA2871 (1277) | 3 months ago | lucky you,just keep to those you like and avoid as much as you can the ones you dont like ahahahaah | |
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| 7. busta1baby (1193) | 3 months ago |  i just dnt tlk to them...cuz if i do ill be a big bit**
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | hahaha~in this way u don't have to push yourself~~that's not bad~:) | |
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| 8. Elixiress (2030) | 3 months ago |  I tend to just ignore the people that I don't like and don't do anything for them. If an argument happens and they are involved then I side with the other person.
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| ranki_wj (29) | 3 months ago | Yeah, I won't offer anything for them. Sometimes they can be really disgusting~ | |
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| 9. LexaNightShadows (956) | 3 months ago |  People that I really don't like I still treat politely but I am cool towards them - not friendly or outgoing as I am with people I am comfortable with, but still polite.
Lexa
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