You are his Second choice.

oooh thats a tough one. on one hand, he could be the one for you, often people dont realise what they want is staring them right in the face, until bang, it hits them, maybe he has realised you are the one for him. on the other hand, playing second fiddle to someone he wants and will always want is no way to live your life.especially if she decides she wants him all of a sudden when you take up his offer. this is tricky and could cause you much heartache, thats what love is though right. im a believer of 'its better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all' - good luck to you

that situation really happened on me and my present bf. i say that i give him a chance knowing that his first choice has rejected him because his first choice was not yet ready to have a relation again and the girl told him that she would just accept some suitors after she graduated from college then of course the next thing that happened was i was the one that's been courting by him. i feel so happy and kinda worried that time. happy because he's my crush even though i have a bf that time and good thing that my 1st ex and i just broke up before he courts me then worried because he might just leave me once he find out that his first choice has already graduated from college and his parents might also won't accept me as his gf because they're chinese and i'm a filipino-spanish by blood so we just hide it to his friends.

well his first choice had already graduated from college this march 2008 and i'm relieved and very happy that we're still together and the only thing that i'm worried was about his parents if they found out about us but i'm hoping and i still trust him that he would fight for me no matter what happens. amen! hallelujah!