do you think you need to improve your self esteem i do

@paulw33 (297)
United States
April 28, 2008 5:37am CST
im 33 male and i think i eed to improve mine but its hard i have whats called alopecia areta its where you lose your hair in patches this has made my self esteem very low even know i wear a hat all the time to cover it i still feel low about myslf ever day even know my women thinks im hot i think sometimes im discusting because of this is your self esteem low or a little low and if it is what would you want to improve i know i want my hair back what do you want back?
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@ruby222 (4847)
28 Apr 08
Hi Paul..I think we all lack self esteem in some way or other...even the most super confident of people have their little insecurities.I can understand what you say about your hair loss...its hard to come to terms with..but I will say to you that there are some very very good looking bald chaps about...and so why shouldnt you be one of them?..theres lots of things that I would like to improve about myself,so dont go thinking that you are the only one!..Take care..
@paulw33 (297)
• United States
28 Apr 08
thanks so much for your response i see what your saying i guess in a way we all have somethings we want to change and i thank you for the comment its people like you that makes mylot all up thanks and have a wonderfull day
@mariechin (426)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Hi Paul! I Understand what you feel... Maybe you need to appreciate and love yourself more than anything else. Change will always come in your life. And you will not prevent it. ON the other hand, what you can control is your feeling of self worth. Self esteem is very important aspect of our life. Even if you are the most hottest man in the world and everybody is telling you that way, you'll still be sad because you view yourself as not. Maybe just starting how to view things differently and looking for the positive side will help you improve your self esteem.. Improving one's self esteem is our personal responsibility it's like attending various enrichment seminar in a job you know. CHeers!