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myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life4 months ago

I hate it when people see me cry,I think that in most cases crying is a sign of weakness and one should it by himself/herself if possible. If anyone sees me cry,it means that I'm having a nervous breakdown and can't hold it any longer. Thank God,that doesn't happen too often.
What about you? Do you cry often? Do you have a shoulder to cry on?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. lilaclady (15201)   ranked 838 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

yes I tend to hide away when I can't control my crying, I am a very private person when it comes to being depressed, angry or any negative emotion so crying is just one of them...


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Same with me... I don't like it when people try to use their tears to get something out of you.

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. enterpriseLEE2010 (703)   ranked 16,799 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

no one sees me cry or I hardly ever cry (just have a tear come out of my eye now and then), but I want you


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Huh?:)

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3. spazticlastic (42)   ranked 8,665 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

I tend to cry when I get mad. Last time I cried, I got REALLY mad at my teacher and got taken out of his class. I really don't cry that often though. My friend Megan is always there for me when I cry, if she's not...there's the handy dandy...pillow!! Yay for pillows!


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Lol pillows are good,I agree. Thanks for sharing!

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. jesbellaine (2334)   ranked 499 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

When people see me cry, I get really shy and my face really turns into red more and more... I just don't want other people see my cry unless it is my friend whom I trust and confident with


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

I got the same problem but that's not the point.. I wouldn't want people to see me cry even if I looked like Madonna and that was my best face lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. jesbellaine (2334)   ranked 499 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Oh meeh.. I have this terrible face when I cry that is why i don't want others seeing me as well. Thanks! heheh. Good day!


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Crying pretty is a whole new science....:))))
Good day to you!

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5. ruth16 (84)   ranked 13,703 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

i hate crying in front of people...i find it weird and i don't like to see myself as a cry baby in front of others i rather do that in private...but i don't find a reason to cry nowadays lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Good for you!..:)))))

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6. panther04 (56)   ranked 6,281 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

well i don't really cry in public places, as much as possible i'll control myself and hide my feelings after that when i'm already alone that's the time that i'll burst into tears.


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Looks like I got myself a bunch of soulmates lol
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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. anawar (1051)   ranked 1,831 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

I'm the same way you are. I try never to let people see me cry. I don't want sympathy, I want to work my problems out alone.

I don't have a shoulder to cry on and I don't want one.

Good question. It helps people discover who they are.


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Thanks!:)

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. miesse (330)   ranked 557 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

I really don't care who sees me cry. I am a very emotional person and cry very easily. I've had things like commercials and discussion here on mylot make me cry. I also cry when I get really mad. I have my husband to lean on when I am very upset. My husband is the one that doesn't like anyone but me see him cry. He will try desperatly to hold it in and avoid people untill he is alone.


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Yeah,men are like that. It's ok to cry if that makes you feel better but if I was getting upset over discussions here I'd probably have full head of gray hair...

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9. myLot reputation of 65/100. lunmun (124)   ranked 4,323 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

I share the same feeling with you .when i was too depress to cry,i always find a corner to cry myself,i dont want any people see my crying.crying is a sign of weakness,idont agree with you .in my opinion, cry can make a person relax and let off the affording .dont be shy to cry but in secrat
way.


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

Crying does help relieve stress,I guess what I meant is crying makes you seem weak in front of other people. I'm not talking about your close friends and relatives,I mean people who initially upset you. Don't show that to them lol

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10. myLot reputation of 75/100. Tahitirabbit (170)   ranked 12,395 out of 26,068 in life   4 months ago

im agree with you. Well.. Cry is something to let ur anger or emotion out so that you can feel better.And the last time i crying was yesterday.. i quarrel with my mom..and i cried. But.. i did apologize.Its my fault. always tend to increase my voice when i talked to her..


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

May I ask how old are you? We all had this problem with moms but I seemed to get over it


myLot reputation of 75/100. Tahitirabbit (170)   ranked 12,395 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

im 20. haha.. u? im js feeling guilty and cry.


myLot reputation of 95/100. AnakSuNamun (296)   ranked 1,993 out of 26,068 in life  4 months ago

23 but I moved out at age 19:)))))

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