The ex-factor!  

i dont think there are dangers of old flames. i think they are exes for a reason and if you are secure in your current relationship you have nothing to worry about.. i have no problem with my girlfriend remaining friends with her exes, i know she loves me and i'm the one she wants

Dear Danoluma.......The only problem with this is what do you mean when you say Close?
If it is a relationship where I know everything ( and I mean everything )
that's going On.....Then I would most likely Not Mind.
But....I demand respect. I do not expect for my boyfriend to sneak behind my Back and do things.
This isn't an issue for me , Because my Boyfriend never let's me out of his sight......In fact....he won't stop talking to me either.
I have enough voices and sounds ( oddly enough ) in my head to keep up with , and when my Boyfriend stops to take a Breath......He then asks me if I'm listening to Him.
Da*! there are those Da*! Bells again!!!! Sh*@ any how....hold on ....I have to answer that....Oh wait....that's not the Door , it's my head again ( Brain-Fart )
The Only thing I'm not confused about is where I stand with My Boyfriend.
He's Awesome!!!!!!! He's honest , he has integrity , and I love him to pieces.

I'm totally comfortably with this issue because its the trust that we have in our relationship.we are faithful to each other and open to any issues we have.

I am quite comfortable even if my girlfriend is close contact with her ex. Its just natural because they have shared so many happy moments in their past together so will love to tell certain things to each other. its just that relationship between them didnt work properly thats why they decided to part or in other words break. So there is risk factor of old flame or something like that. This is my opinion.

It does not bother me. My partner is still in contact with his ex it was a long time ago when they dated, so i have no problem with it.
They text each other regularly and she always asks after me. He vists her when he goes home as well. But they have both moved on. She is married now.
So i have also found a new friend in her. We get on very well.

thats a no go zone my friend you don't make mistake s twice or do you?she or he will just know how desperate you are,or why else would you come back when their are so many singles out theere.