How do you heal a broken heart?

hmm.....

its not a big deal to heal a broken heart nowadays..
ITS JUST A matter of Accepting the regret you'd make though IT's you who made that CHOICE to have heart broken..

once in our relationship to somebody ends..just remember that there is BETTER on it that's why it did not long last...and move yourself to get into it..^_^ ##

GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK...free and live as happy as you can..!! just PRAY to GOD..

@jam@
~live life~ be contented***

it can take you much longer than that, psychologists say it can take from 2 to 10 years but they also say every one is different and it will take whatever it takes. and that is just how it goes, there is no such thing as it take exactly so much time,

it gets a bit easier as time goes on and that is it. Two years is still fresh for some people. It took me 10 years to fully get someone out of my system, not I didn't cry over him 10 years later like I did the first 4 years but I would have taken him back in a second up until 10 years and then I realized all the feelings were gone.

It took me about six months get over No 1, about close to a year to get over No 2 and nearly two years to get over No 3. It was different because of the length of our relationships. I noticed - not just with myself but with other people - that the longer you've been together, the hard it is to let go.

This has a lot to do with the amount of emotion you've invested into the relationship, the memories that you've built with that person over time and even the relationships you have began with other people that are linked to your ex. Of course, what happened leading to the break-up is a huge factor as well.

It was hard for me with No 3 because I lost a lot of friends while I was dating him and I lost a whole lot more after our break-up. It didn't help that there were a lot of bad issues so much so that it took me a year to really decide if my hubby was worth trusting.

Do you know why you doubt that you're not over the whole thing? Is it because there was a lack in closure, unresolved issues with the ex or...?

I believe that forgiveness is the most important ingredient for getting over someone. Not just forgiving the person, but also forgiving yourself. Once you forgive from the heart, the healing process can truly begin.

it's been 2 months since me and my ex broke up, he's my first boyfriend, and he broke my heart, and it so so painful up to now.. all im doing is just to pray and pray cause up to now.. im still hurt.

2 years, gosh that is a long time, to be honest with you it has only ever taken me a few weeks to get over someone, if that!! I just used to get it out of my system and then go out and get drunk, I used to go out every weekend so it did not seem to take long to get over a broken heart!!

acceptance.

accept the fact that it's over and it's not the end of the world yet

A broken heart need another heart to heal. . Many do say time will heal, maybe it is true for others but not for me. You may forget about the broken heart but you can never forget the hurt. How do I know if I am healed? When I can meet the broken heart with a peaceful heart.

When I split up from my ex it just took time and understanding from my family. I got through it and got back on track. As painful as a broken heart is, there is always a lesson to learn. With my last one, I learned that there are some things I can't forgive.

**AT PEACE WITHIN**

~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~

I cried myself into sleep for couple of days;
Lay low then think of the reason why we broke up;
After that, go out with friends and families;
The best is that realizing the things that I still have in my life that will never change without him... that is how I mend my broken hard... believing that there will be new love on the way sooner or later.