what do you think of the girls that work at the entertainment clubs?...
By lady11eve
@lady11eve (311)
Philippines
May 12, 2008 3:01pm CST
in my country poverty is a big problem,
working hard cannot get you survive on our daily lives.
so me as a single mom,thought having a second job.until a friend of mine told me to try this out...job at international entertainment club.
once i enter the area,and saw the girls dancing naked,i really got scared and thought of backing out...but the courage of earning more keeps me inside.nights pass that i gain no friends cos i ma so afraid to talk to the girls that seems there are so liberated and im afraid to be like them...
just like to keep my old self,quite and polite.
but as i keep working there,i made some friends already,and heard there story...some of them wer college graduate,single mom,or even married...
and what ever they achieve on life isnt enough to make there lives better.
i feel shame to my self that as i get closer to them and see whats really inside them makes me ashame of my self...that i judge them easily because on what they do on stage...i never really have the gutts to get naked...i just sit beside a customer and talk to them while we watch the dancers.
and some how,those girls are the most true persons i ever know for now...they nyt be lying infront of customers but they are true on their goals.i cant blame them...or me...we are victim of poverty,,,of the government.
im not saying all the girls there are just like those i mentioned,therea re fewthat do it for fun only and for money for there materails necesities...but most of the girls have dreams of coming out of that job with more stable life...someday...
what do you think...?
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3 responses
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
15 May 08
What do I think?? first off I say good for you for seeing PAST the stereotype! I worked in the adult entertainment industry for many yrs and a good 12 of those yrs were stripping...There are numerous reasons for the girls being there and regardless of what those reasons may be..MAJORITY of them are (or at least when I was working, i've been retired for several yrs now) good, kind, hard working ppl with bills to pay, children to feed and homes to keep ya know....Adult entertainers get a REALLY bad rap as far as I'm concerned...we are no less or less worthy than anyone else...
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@lady11eve (311)
• Philippines
16 May 08
tnx raven...
good to know your retired already...
entertainers are not really on wasted life...as others think of them...
actually of the most girls from there are in better position than others.
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
12 May 08
You have nothing to be ashamed of of wanting to get ahead in life. If you don't do it no one else will do it for you. Strippers/dancers/escorts etc are all people too. Alot of them are there to better them selves in life. They are providing for a better future and for their familes and themselves. Just because you dance/strip/escort doesn't make you any less of a person let alone you shouldn't be ashamed of it either. We are all humans aren't we.
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@lady11eve (311)
• Philippines
12 May 08
yeah i agree...
its just that people (some that dont give respect)
are narrowminded to girls that been there...
@tessah (6617)
• United States
12 May 08
i dont think you have anything to be ashamed of in the slightest. whats to be ashamed of? that youre working hard? that youre trying to take care of your children? last time i checked, those were good and admirable things. youre not hurting anyone.. youre not doing anything illegal.. youre providing a service to others that brings them pleasure and happiness.. and its providing a better life for your kids and yourself. there is no shame in any of that at all.




