HELP! What to do?

You are really in a difficult position. I myself don't know if I'm the one in your situation. I think it might be good to get married to the person who loves you very much. I might be wrong but just a suggestion. It may not be good to continue to love someone who doesn't love you.

To love, is hurt the most. To be loved, hurt the most.

It's up to your decision. I prefer the love that appears altogether on both sides.

Neither. I say this because the one that you are deeply in love with and he's not deeply in love with you, taking you for granted and not giving anything but always taking. How can you even think to marry a person like this? One day you are going to get tired of him treating you like this, but until then you need to really sit down and think what is it that you're looking for in a man. Now for the man that truly loves you but you don't love him back. It would be a big mistake if you married him. He loves you and you don't love him that way only a friends way and that's not good enough. You don't want to mistreat him like this other guy is mistreating you, because that is exactly what will happen if you marry this guy who really loves you. You have to be in love I think in order to give marriage a thought. If you're not in love with this guy don't marry him and think that you will grow to love him. That is not good nor would it be to the guy that really loves you. Somewhere down the line he's going to feel very hurt, that you don't love him just like you feel now with this guy that don't love you. Would you want your friend to feel this feeling that you feel now? I f thats the case you really aren't his friend.

i think you will not believe that it is same mine condition, that i love someone from the bottom of my heart, but she love someone else. but he was flirting with her. then, the day came when she understand me and my love for her.now we both are happy living in our love life we care for each other, and now she also love me more than me. secondly, love is not a race, first come then you get top position. according to me, it is a feelings, which arise suddenly for someone special which deserve you and your love.... i hope you understand. i am not saying you that leave your boy friend and turn towards him. but you have to see your future with him.....