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myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love3 months ago

Hi friends,
Im planning for my first date next month. The girl is really nice. I never want to miss her. she said ok for the dating. But im nervous and dont know how to approach my first date. If your a experienced person, give me some tips. that will help me and others.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. zabawaus (600)   ranked 2,192 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

hi I am 31 years old and I ve been dated bunch of guys before i got married, It will be classic but try to be yourself do not act and be polite to a girl, I am sure it will help a lot. Girls like funny guys so bring your some jokes with you:) Good luck


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

thank you.. she really likes humorous guys..

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. goodhappens (300)   ranked 2,451 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

Hi Jaw, congrats and good luck. Just remember when your on this date to be yourself, that is why she accepted, so many try to be something they are not and that never works.
Have fun, if your having fun that will show and she will too, good ol fashioned manners are very much appreciated, open her doors and that sort of thing. When she talks, listen to her, dont just hear what she says, listen and share, most of the time she will then in turn do the same.
Most of all be yourself and have fun:)


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

thanks for your valuable comment. It looks cool and i follow this.Thanks again.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. giePortlandOR_08 (3930)   ranked 453 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

Hi!Goodluck to your first date.I could remember how i felt nervous my first date was also.Just be with yourself and talk normally and naturally.I am sure she would love you more for being sohappy.


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

Thanks for your wishes giePortland...i follow ur guidelines. thanks again for sharing urs.


myLot reputation of 95/100. giePortlandOR_08 (3930)   ranked 453 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

Your welcome!happy

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (1566)   ranked 54 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

I agree with all the people here, but would like to also emphasize all of their points. Make sure you do compliment her, listen to her and things will start to get easier between the two. Talk about your interests.


myLot reputation of 91/100. elitess (610)   ranked 2,338 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

I agree with all + what you said but i must add:

Be careful not to compliment to much (resume to her wearing, or other simple thing, meaning do not exagerate, and most of all be careful NOT to ask her if she has a boyfriend, or if she wants to be your girlfriend. This may look silly, but many guys tend to do that on the first date. Of course she does not have a boyfriend, otherwise she would not have dated you in the first place.

And most of all, don't be nervous, she is not the last girl you meet so you have nothing to loose.

Respect yourself and respect her.

Good luck to you!


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

Thanks... I accept your idea of compliments. What kind of compliment suits for this?


myLot reputation of 91/100. elitess (610)   ranked 2,338 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

Well, see if she is wearing different earrings than usual and say they are beautiful, or you could compliment her new haircut (if she gets one for this occasion) or you could compliment her cloths if they are different than what she usual wears. If none of this works you could relate to something in the environment to connect with her eyes to get the desired compliment. See? I am referring to simple things.


myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (1566)   ranked 54 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

Thank you for emphasizing more on this,as it is important not to over compliment. I agree that you should stick to the basics, and try not to get to nervous. Some girls do find it cute, but some don't... and no girl likes a guy that's to nervous.


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5. myLot reputation of 83/100. muralirv (153)   ranked 666 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

Hi,First try to get close to her as a friend then talk to her very affectionately and with lots of passion.she must know that you care for her a lot.Now your side is ok.Now she must be impressed with your speech.The same passion will turn towards you whatever you implied to her.At last you can arrange for the date for a good place.let me know if you want a good place;i will suggest you in the next post


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

thanks murali. I didn't chose the place yet. yet to decide. Tell me your suggestions. Thanks again.

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6. lexibethr (52)   ranked 4,835 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

First try not to be too nervous the girl will pick up on it and most girls go for confident guys, Be open and honest with her but try not to tell too much about yourself on the first date. Tell her some things about you but let alot of the conversation be about her and if she runs out of things to tell you then make sure you are prepared with some back up questions or conversation topics. Also be attentive but not over barring, girls dont want you in their face constantly but they like it when they feel like there the most important thing to you at that moment and they also like when you notice little things like if they feel uncomfortable. Good luck with the date


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

Thanks.. These are the useful comments. this will help me lot. Thanks again for your valuable tips.

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. lady11eve (137)   ranked 4,768 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

ei...
i been to lots of date...
one thing i dont like with a guy is acting as if we are already on...
just show respect and dont be too fast,sumtimes us girls like courtships...kinda treatus special and show us we are really on your thoughts...
and ofcors...dont forget to bring your sense of humor,and it would be effective to show your clean teeth and fresh breath...smile as often...

goodluck!


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

thanks.Thats great. Useful info for me.

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8. myLot reputation of 72/100. triptadasgupta (392)   ranked 1,077 out of 7,600 in love   3 months ago

hello friend ....thats very nice that you are planning your first date and i wish you all the best.well friend when your girl is nice and everything is fine then go ahead.All my best wishes are with you.There is no need to be nervous.But take care that dont be too hasty in your dealings go slow but steadily and you will surely reach your goal.

have a nice day...


myLot reputation of 91/100. jawaharks (310)   ranked 814 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

thanks for this gupta.. that was helpful. i think i have a great success in this first date. thanks again.


myLot reputation of 83/100. muralirv (153)   ranked 666 out of 7,600 in love  3 months ago

all the best jaw.hopefully your date day would be completed i guess

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