Crush on someone

I am really one of those old fashioned and depressingly passive females who would rather spend the rest of my life mooning over a guy than make a move and end my self-imposed torment. I was brought up and conditioned to believe that the guys should be the one to make a move on the girl. I grew up thinking that I would really die if my crush would know that I have a crush on him. LOL! Yeah! its pathetic that even now I couldn't even get the nerve to say to someone that I have a crush on him. So until now, I would just keep it to myself if I have a crush on someone. Not even the prospect of the end of the world or dying tomorrow would make me tell the guy that I am crazy about him. What a waste!

for me, i tend to hide my feeling over him when i got crush on someone. i oftenly being more silently if i am close to those person otherwise showed to him about my strengthness and my capability within doing my work things

Bury it in my brain and heart... I have this tendency to admire a certain person because of certain qualities or features or actions or ideas or be it anything... It doesn't give a big impact though. I just easily admire, nothing more nothing less.

i will approach them first. but i cant approach one person, aishwarya rai.

Hi, titaniumsoul,

I'll see his reaction first before I tell him that i like him. I think this is to play safe and less hurtful to me.

First of all, if some one is sending me anonymous gifts we would have smackdown. Not cool and kind of creepy. I tell them how it is. In fact, that is how I got my husband. I told him that I liked him and to my suprise he said he had a crush on me too. Three years later we are married and have a baby boy. Being honest about it is important if you stand back and be afraid of rejection you will never get hurt but you'll also never have a relationship with anyone... Ever. Being a chicken when it comes to lust and love is just a protective screan that people put up. Those people die alone and lonely. And usually think about suicide 3 times more than the normal person.

No way. Had I been so out going then I'd have gone to places.

I am one of those people who will sit back and wait for someone to come to me. I am not secure enough to go up to someone and ask them out. It's been so long with the same person now if I was to get back into the dating scene I would have NO idea were to begin or what to do .

i would like to know her first before i express my feelings, so i can be sure that i express it to the right person:) so if i have to choose between those two option, i'll choose the 2nd one, it's better for me to know about her character first, then i'll decide to take/not to take further action toward her:D

For other people who want a relationship i say let the person know you like them by going up and talking to them. Don't follow them around and kinda stalk them cuz thats a turnoff. I know, cuz i have stalker chix and its creepy. Anyways, just talk, ask em if they wanna hang out, and if its a "i'm busy" then ask when they arn't busy. Telling that person personally is a good idea though. NEVER send a friend to ask for you though. Ugh, hate that too. Anyways hope you get your person... him/her.